How do I get my cousin to stop this

To add to that, I would call the po-po on his sorry ass before the bruise goes away so you have proof, then get the hell away from that sorry ass family of yours and find a better one. There's plenty of room for you in my family!!!

I got yer back darlin

 

Thanks. That made me smile. I actually showed it to my mom she described is as a "love mark".

 

Your welcome hun I'm glad I made you smile; I just want to make you realize that you aren't being treated fairly at all and your fam should'nt be afraid to step up bring the bad ones into the light - ya know?

Do you mean your mom said that bruise was a "love mark"?

 

wonder what mom wuold think if ol cuz gave her a luv mark as he did you ,, would be willing to say though it would be something different to her then

 

Yeah no shit. Then she may be willing to quit denying that your cousin is a piece of shit...

 

hmm,, tell your mother that just because shes into rough sex with her next of kin doesnt mean you are...

 

I'm sorry to say Sister, but it seems that your family condones violence against women/girls.

By ignoring it. He's feeling insecure about something in his life and is testing his angst / unsettled insecure behavior against you.

GIve him the wake up call he needs and file a retraining order against him, and press charges for battery, take pictures of your arm, go down to the police station.

YOU HAVE RIGHTS. You don't have to be abused verbally or physically. It's okay to stand up for yourself, you have the right not to be insulted, you have the right for a safe environment.

I hope that you give him a positive life teaching, and save a future girlfriend/wife/future child from his violence.

Remember it started for a reason, be a good example and end it. You have my support.

 

Thank you htat helps a lot. Sorry about any spelling errors I broke my fibula at my ankle and the loratab and ibuprofen my doctor gave me are making me exetremly tired.

 

just kick him in the nuts

 

actually i think the post above me is more sensible

 

Honestly CALL THE COPS, then he'll know your serious and your mom will have no choice but to view it like you do.

 

agreed

 

Call the cops next time. You don't deserve that.

 

If you don't want to call the police go to school and show a teacher the bruises. Teachers are mandated reporters so they will take you seriously. You can even make it an "accident" that the teacher saw by wearing a shirt that shows the bruises. Maybe bump into something and say OW and then show the bruises. I understand not wanting to turn in your family, but enough is enough!

 

I'm with HH,however just how dangerous is this guy?Is he capable of doing you serious harm?An escalation could be very dangerous for you.Maybe the school and/police would be the prudent 1st step as mentioned.What the hell kind of family would allow this to continue?

 

Well its not often they leave bruises its not very easy to bruise me at all. I'm like a melon. The bruises are gone and I haven't seen my cousin recently so i'm just grateful for that fact. I'm alright for now.

 

Well he is the strongest guy at my school as he does hold most of the weightlifting records. But I don't see him as very dangerous.

 

stomp on his face

 

learn a martial art and how to defend yourself. if your cousin or brother 'mess' with you again, show them what you've learned and that you're not afraid to defend yourself. someone posted earlier that your family is allowing violence against females to be perpetuated and it was my first thought upon reading your original post. is there anyone in your family that will support you or back you up? that's the first place i'd go. second speak with child protective services about this situation.

 

who the fuck needs that kind of family? tell them if it ever happens again, from either your brother or your cousin thats the first place you're going to. don't be scared of them either, you're the one being damaged here, and they're the ones who are letting it happen.

i hope you're ok and your bruises aren't too bad? I dont know what it's like in america, i'm guessing it's quiet similar to here, but pretty much every guy i know would go straight for this guy if they knew about it, especially that it's your cousin. Don't underestimate the people you know, i'm sure they're there to help you.