how do I explain to my bf this before sex?

If you are too young for sex , you have plenty of time to figure out what your gender is , and the type of sex you want to have . You could of stated your age on the first post . As you do have boy and girl parts you may be more happy in the bi life . desert rat

 

I actually am ready most of my friends do. The average age losing one's virginity is about my age. And I know what gender/sex I am if you don't realize that you haven't read clearly...

 

Your thread saying "knock it off I am just a kid" , made me think you wanted tp weight for later . desert rat

 

Those kind of things you have to mention on the first day, OP

 

WTF this thread frustrates me so much. I've just read every single post on each page and you OP are really unclear to say the least.
DO YOU HAVE A COCK??? It's not that hard to say "Yes, I have male parts." And is it average sized or like barely there? These things matter, believe it or not. How old are you? This matters as well. We're not asking to be horrible. We're just trying to understand the situation.
If you're sensitive about if you have a penis or not, then you should really not be in a relationship. Because you're not comfortable enough with yourself, let alone with another person cos you haven't told him yet. This may make you feel worse if he has a problem with it. IMO if a guy turned around and said to me, "I have a vagina." I'd be like... "I wanna see this." But that's me, I'm kinda open- minded. Do you think this guy is? What are his opinions of gays/lesbians? Cos if he was an issue with those kinds of things he may not want to carry on with you.
It's hard to determine whether you're a girl or a boy as well. If you have male parts, you are a BOY. I'm sorry, but girls don't just grow penises. Which hormone do you produce? Because physical attributes do not make up what sex we are- It is our genitals. Straight up.
Either way, you need to have a deep think with yourself. If you love this guy and he loves you, you owe it to both of you to be honest. I just don't get why you won't admit to having the cocky if you do?
Sorry, it was a bit of a rant. But seriously. You should have said it sooner, cos this is gonna be hard for him to comprehend and accept (if he chooses to).

 

damn, well trust me he wont appreciate it if youre telling him when he;s looking for your ****. tell him now, this is how people get killed man. keep it real, always keep it real!

 

actually my balls produce estrogen like ovaries do. And it's not like that when you have an intersex disorder. Girl with cah have penises. I have an intersex condition but my genitals are a small version of the average guy's. But I'm neither and my body produces more estrogen than guys do naturally..... My bf found out we broke up but he accepted it while we were together....

 

Sorry to hear you broke up. Really. And sorry I gave you such a hard time. I was just frustrated cos you never actually said you had male parts, you kept side stepping it. That must be kind of difficult for you to deal with. :/

Don't worry, you'll find someone one day who will appreciate you for whoever you are!! :2thumbsup: