How do I do more for him?

Tease him. Hug and kiss with a pressing of your breasts against his chest.
Brush them against him here and there. That will get you hot too.
If he is sitting:
Sit on him real close, light contact. Let him feel you but not too much.
Face him and kiss him, breasts touching him, barely touching his cock with your body.
Same things but with a firmer contact. Jiggle, move, grind.
Sit across him and rest the sole of your foot on his cock. Press on and off, or rub his cock up and down his length slowly.
Run your fingertips or palm on his cock slowly a long time. If that was me, I would have a mess of precum in my underwear.
Like my fwb used to do all the time, ad you sit together take his cock out and just hold it for long enough and make him want more. Stroke him slowly.
Lay with your head on his lap, your head lightly touching his cock. Maybe placing his hand on your breast at the same time.
Wait before doing something he wants. I had someone who was going to give me one of her blowjobs I loved so much. She just rubbed, rubbed and rubbed my cock, nothing else. It felt so good, my cock was aching and tingling, a mess in my underwear. I wanted her blowjob very much but the longer she just caressed me, the better it felt and the more I wanted her to continue. I didn’t care if she had made me cream my underwear at that time. And when she started giving oral I almost asked her to go back to what she started doing rubbing my cock forever. I was moaning already before she started doing oral.

 

First time I had sex with a particular younger woman, I was excited about it.
I was naked sitting on the edge of the bed, she knelt on the floor. I didn’t want to rush her but she started kissing me and took my cock in her hand: nothing but holding it as we kissed for a good while. Nothing else. I started aching in my cock, wanting more, and I also started leaking.
I was longing to know how it felt to be inside her, I wanted to be inside her badly.

If that can help.

the one who rubbed my cock for a long time, the first time I fucked her I was more than ready! I was on the couch and she was at the other end. As we talked she stretched her legs on mine, her calf resting on my cock, but not doing anything. I felt like pressing her leg against but I resisted and I let her tease me.

 

I had a girlfriend and she always had sex with her legs crossed.
I had her on her stomach and was buried. I hit something and her legs flew wide open with liquid squirting all over.
I couldn't hold it I grabbed her with all my might and dumped my load.
I think that was the best I ever had. I couldn't leave that alone.
She sounded like a steam roller breathing. She was like a butterfly after that and I loved it.
Just when I would come after spreading her girly things for deeper penetration, she spread her legs further.
And it drove me crazy and helped me come better. It always took about ten minutes to dump my load and she loved the time it took.
If she was not ready, she could close down on me to prevent my cumming. It felt good when she turned it loose.
Then she would let me go without for a week, I had to hang on the her to keep her from jumping out of bed. They can measure your input.

 

It's the anticipation that does it for me. Just kisses all over, especially the the stomach and inner thighs... Try teasing him but kissing his cock but not sucking it... Blindfold him (all over kisses work really well with this!) and put your pussy close enough for him to smell your perfume but don't let him taste it...
Visually stimulate him by wearing something sexy. Aurally stimulate him by whispering the things you're going to do to him...

All this will drive him crazy!

 

A lot of men are very visually oriented, which is why lingerie, stockings, heels etc can really work but that's very specific. Sometimes just showing off for him, showing off your body, how you touch yourself, being confident in yourself and enjoying his attention, that can really work wonders. Watch porn with him and let him choose what to watch, that's a good way to learn, though he'll probably be very shy about it at first.

 

Here you go- do this to him, he will absolutely love you for it

 

I love that. Watching porn together you will know what other persons likes and dislikes. If you respect each other's boundaries you will always have mutually satisfying sex. From time to time I watch nice sensual videos with my wife and it really puts her in high mood.

 

Agree perfectly with u babe ...spot on !!...you seem to know so much about our guys' sexual liking and response ...yes u r right, we guys are visual creatures, we are turned on by wat we see of u girls' naked body, how u all pleasure yourselves.. so watching porn together n doing a strip tease for us would certainly make us guys hard below esp when u girls let us make the choice ...of course 1st time doing anything sexual would make anyone shy, not just us guys but gals too if i m not wrong

 

This thread is interesting.
I mean... we are talking men here.
We are not complicated. Especially when it comes to sex. We are pretty much up for anything. Anal is probably the only thing some men are not going to do... other than that, it's all in the game.
You want to know how to get your husband really going?
1) Brush his ego.
2) Verbalize it. Tell him you want him to fuck you. Tell him you thought about fucking him all day.
3) Strip down in front of him, but tell him no touchy.
4) Rub your yourself while looking at him
5).... he is dying at this point. And you have him.

 

My thinking leads me to tying him up. That's you tying him up, not me, Lol (but if you need a hand). If he doesn't like being tied, make him put his hands near to the corners of the bed and place a pillow on each hand. He will be lying in the centre of the bed. Tell him to close his eyes and that you are in control. Tell him that if he touches you or himself, then you will stop playing. You can then do what ever you like and drive him nuts. I would try telling him a filthy story by whispering it into his ear as you run your hand over him. If he has a certain fantasy or maybe has a thing about a celebrity, tell him about him a situation like that. Don't let him touch you and keep your clothes on, removing them as you take him through his story. Match your sex to his story, so he feels that he is there. Ask him questions like "can you feel her hand moving towards your balls?"
I did this with an ex on holiday. He was perving on a cute girl (so was I, lol) and that evening, I made up a story about him having sex with the girl. He was very well behaved and did as he was told, lol.

 

Very hot! Definitely my style. A blindfold can be nice also. But I'm with you, and prefer being told to keep my eyes closed, and no peeking! Wow, that got me going just thinking about it lol.

 

IMO you are doing fine nothing more you can do except flip on a porn channel and let it do its magic. You'd be surprised.

 

IMO in any situation a discussion is the key to knowing exactly what another person enjoys. It is not a person's job to make another person happy just might be surprised. He may be holding back a subject that he thinks you may not agree with. Be open. Tell him anything goes. Tell me your fantasies sweetheart I want to be yout sex goddess. Crazy shit like that.

 

Thanks babe ...u are so helpful with this advice n guidance for those of yr kind to pleasure their man

 

watch some nice sexy video clips together while you are fully dressed not expecting sex immediately.

 

Delay going to intercourse quickly. This happens often with my wife, where as soon as she's wet and ready she wants me to put my cock in her. But I enjoy delay that, I like for her to spend time stroking me and playing with my balls.

I don't mind a little anal play, but seems your husband may be 100% opposed to that.

As someone mentioned, sex is also mental, try whispering in his ear while licking his ear and breathing hard, and lightly stroke his cock. Figure out what makes him squirm, figure out what fantasy will turn him on and whisper it to him?

Try touching his cock with your feet and toes, or with your breasts and nipples, using your hair to tickle his.dick

 

Omg !!...such good long n detailed erotic suggestions from this babe subbylauren to stimulate your man in bed ...wow !...glad to see so many interesting suggestions from the babes n guys for the ladies to please their men in bed from the usual ways ...for me i hv got one suggestion...perform a strip tease act in front of him instead of taking off your clothes in one go and let him participate in the stripping slowly piece by piece ...not sure if this helps

 

This is exactly wat i like to do to my girl....tease her, rub your cock as many times as needed against her dripping wet pussy having a dirty conversation with her n forcing her to make certain confessions abt her fantasies until she cannot stand it anymore n demand you to ram your dick inside her wet wet pussy to feel and enjoy the ultimate pleasurable sensation of a hard penis in her wet love tunnel

 

That's what I like to do. Participate that is. I love playing peek a boo with my partner when removing our clothes. As I uncover a sex part I pause and play a little like when I pop her tit out in the open I might say "Oops, looky here what I found!" and then lick the nipple. Then it's her turn and so on. By the time we are naked we're both hard, her nipples and my cock, and ready for action.