How do I become more fully informed?

It's even worse when the media deliberately perpetuates sex toward the nation's youth for the purpose of keeping abortion ca$h flowing.

 

^ Not to argue, but do you seriously believe that!?
Nah....sex is everywhere, as most know that that is what makes money and holds interest......

 

the media definitely perpetuates sex, but i think it's for profit, not abortions... talk about a tenuous connection....

 

exactly....I do not think anyone has a goal to make more abortions.....

Ever watch 16 and Pregnant...It is a show turning these babies into stars by being that young and pregnant.....where it is supposed to make other kids be careful, some are wanting to be stars themselves.....

 

quite true. girls are turning up pregnant trying to get on the show....
the issue is making abortion and contraception safely available to women who need it.

 

No, I wasn't a punishment or a mistake.
No normal parent woud call their child that.

Also, yes I see screaming children at stores all the time. They are annoying, but they're little kids. You can't expect them to be all reasonable. You are very cruel.
Sorry people are born as babies that need to be taken care of, and not adults with jobs to support themselves so they wouldn't bother anyone.

I dont think women belong in the kitchen, so you are very wrong about that. You seem like a walking stereotype of what a hippy woman should represent.

Your life doesn't end with pregnancy, it's not the end of the world. What a sad world it is when sexual gratification is what matters the most. Sure, sex is natural and good but approach it with responsibility. It's like you dislike children but you act like one - you want to fulfill all your needs minus responsibilities that come with all that.

 

no, i was saying you were once a screaming incontinent child.
i'd rather be a hippy woman than a lot of things.
whether or not the world ends with pregnancy depends on the person. for example, i have goals, dreams, and those would be destroyed with the financial and emotional burden of a child.
i do dislike children, i don't see how they should get a free pass. and i don't see at all how i act like a child- i had to raise myself, left home at 16, and i support myself. i don't expect anyone to take care of me and i never have.

 

"i don't see how they should get a free pass"

Yes why not let that 12 month old feed it's self? Or maybe that 5 year old can drive to work in the steel factory daily?

I can see how many the way you were raised/not raised might effect what you believe but you make it sound like a child is a burden, while it is so far from it.

 

Yeah I dont get what you're trying to say with the free pass thing either

They shouldn't get a free pass from throwing temper tantrums in wal mart? Or what?

 

i mean free pass as in, i should have to deal with them screaming and generally being unpleasant and that's somehow okay.
and thank you for being more tactful than sending me a neg rep saying i should be aborted like eggsprog did.

 

Or you could be a kind and empathetic person and understand how difficult it is for parents when their child throws a public temper tantrum instead of making it all about you and your inconvenience.

My almost two year old threw his first temper tantrum in a book store yesterday. I wanted to immediately take him outside but I had a handful of books I needed to pay for first so i had to struggle to hold him while he cried and screamed and pay the cashier at the same time. The cashier was sympathetic, the bitchy lady trying to read nearby was not. It was embarrassing but all i could do when i got out of the store was laugh at the bitchy lady for being so bitchy. Childless people, get over yourselves. Parents can't just lock their children in their home until they're 18 and ready to come out and behave like adults.

It is really annoying when parents let their kids run wild with no rules but my son threw a tantrum because i was not letting him run wild

Anywho, a bit off topic. Carry on

 

she was bitchy for trying to read?

and don't worry, this whole thread for the past 5 pages has been off topic.

 

She was bitchy for shooting me bitchy looks actually

 

well yes, i wouldn't exactly be thrilled if my reading was interrupted either.
if i'm trying to read, and i didn't choose to have a child, i shouldn't suffer for someone else's choice to have kids.
one of the reasons i don't have kids is to have more reading time.

 

Oh ok, ill just keep my son locked in his room for a few years so he won't ever bother people like you

 

No but you choose where to read and if you don't want to be interrupted then read at home, so you are not suffering for someone else having a child.

Not to be mean but I think you might want to explore this phobia or whatever it is with a therapist. You see childern as a burden and that they should not be around you.

 

What's wrong with being, instead, an academic of deciding the rereading of one's own writing. That way the problem of originality will be discovered by many plausible ways for the outdated subject of sociological involvement. Somebody master's you; nobody master's you, All in all, the state of forgetfulness sadly realizes psycho-analysis (joke) Too many people are wanton over wherever, whatever.

 

Actually, you said 18-25 years of an incontinent screaming roommate who doesn't pay the bills.
I dont know about you but I wasnt incontinent and screaming for 18-25 years.

 

Was gonna quote Piaf also... but instead I'll just say to everything Piaf said (2nd or 3rd to last page-right before these other quotes), good points.

Idk.... did you get any free passes when you were 2 or 3 years old and starting throwing a tantrum or even just crying in the store? Or were you just the perfect child who didn't do those things ever (the only child)?
That's fine that you don't like kids... not everyone does. But you were a kid yourself once and unfor. sometimes life in general- people have to deal w all kinds of things that bug and annoy me. I don't like it when I run into (not literally, lol) mean/rude drivers----but there' lots of them out there and I have to deal w them sometimes... which to me is a lot more annoying because they are supposed to be adults... not children or toddlers!

Nope... don't you know that all 2 year olds....3 year olds, etc. are supposed to be perfectly well behaved and act like adults all the time?

YOU shouldn't have to deal with them? Oh, you must be very special. Little princess girl. Seriously though... I guess everyone else should stop having kids because you don't like them and even the most usually well behaved, calm child will occasionally have a tantrum in public or cry... because they are (the age group I am talking about/referring to) two and three year olds.. not little adults.

Try to have some compassion. You were a child yourself once, right?

The thing is I actually DO understand that obnoxious or rambunctious children can be very annoying. I think parents have a responsibility if they are in...say a restaurant, and their child starts to act off the hook/disruptive to try to calm their child down one way or another in said restaurant and if that does not work (which it won't always with children), then to take said child elsewhere to either-A-leave or B-have a break in bathroom, outside somewhere and calm down a bit before going back into restaurant. I'm aware that not all parents do that all the time. But really most parents and kids I run into...and my own family (currently hubby and me and our 3.5 year old) do do that. (calm down the child or if child refuses to be calmed... to leave).

So, anyways, just wanna say I'm glad that though my son is normally very good in public...that, well, he is three and the times when (esp. when he was a bit younger) he did start crying hysterically in stores, that I'm glad 99% of the people who were witness to those occasions were very nice and understanding towards my child and me. I've luckily had awesome adults come up to my son and actually talk to him and help calm him down. My son is, as mentioned, usually very good in public (and I Have made him leave when he wouldn't calm down) but there are times when....well, he acted his age. I guess if you would have been there to witness it it would have horribly bothered you and I must say... I feel soooo sorry for you.

 

Lol.


Get over yourself. You're not the only person in the world and you aint entitled to shit.