I am recently out and have had one girlfriend. There is a girl at my gym that is always there when I am and here recently she has been approaching me. She has dropped hints that she is gay, seems to know all the gay women there, and dresses in basketball shorts and plays softball. She's very athletic and in the best shape. She's got huge tattoos on her arms and carries herself very confidently and is very androgynous. But certain days she can look completely femme(like me) That's besides the point though, but that is also aiding to my confusion. She approached me asking if I was going to drink green beer on St Patty's Day, asks what I've been up to, always tells me to have a great day or great workout, and likes to compliment my tattoos(seems like an easy subject to get a shoe in)... I need to approach her. I just have to know. Or at least make one gay friend. It's the south, so it's not like it's easy to tell if someone is interested or even gay, for that matter. My question basically is, how do I approach this girl? I trip over my own words when she does talk to me, because she's so confident, fit, and gorgeous. But if she's talking to me, if she wasn't interested in something(friendship or flirting) I suppose she wouldn't keep inquiring about me right? This is all so confusing. I guess I'll never know if I don't take a risk right? Thanks for any feedback!
That's right you'll never know if you don't take the risk! Just ask her out for a drink or a cup of coffee. It doesn't have to be something exceptional at the beginning, just something simple.
Ask her out Do a dumbbell curl and ask in between sets (because hot). The entire situation sounds very cute. I think you should just go for it.
