How did your first male bi encounter come about?

I'm keen to meet a guy whose interested in mutual masturbation and potentially sucking of cock, with another equally interested guy. I'm in a sexless relationship with a wonderful female friend and won't jeopardise it. So, I wonder how those of you who have 'been there and done it', started the conversation, whether it was with a friend or a stranger or if, perhaps, it was that person who brought up the subject with you. And, also, was it good; did it meet your expectation?

 

Well what is it you’re looking for exactly

 

Just as the first line of my OP states I am looking for a guy so we can play with each others cock. It's only about the cock - wanking together/each other, frotting and maybe sucking. However, before that, I'd like to know from guys who have played with another guy's cock, how that event came about. Was it with a stranger or a friend and who raised the subject matter? And how was it raised, not to cause any longer issue if the other guy wasn't interested.
I know a couple of friends and one neighbour whom I would play with if they were willing. But, are they willing?
I've seen their cocks a few years back, once when the guy and his GF had a nude BBQ with a few friends (which was quite fun), and the other time, with the other friend, was when we were getting changed at the swimming pool. The neighbour, who lives alone, occasionally sunbathes nude or is naked when cutting his lawn.
I wasn't interested in playing with cock back then but now (after an ex FB wanted to watch two guys playing and eventually persuaded me to), I am interested but have no FB and no guy.
I don't want to cause any negative issues for any of them or to risk our friendship so that's why I would like to know how other guys raised the subject and either made it happen or went along with the other guy's idea.

 

let me know how this works out I am interested in the same thing.

 

In our sexless marriage and clinical depression, a counsellor suggested I try having an affair. I wanted to be open and honest. She didn't take it well. It didn't work out, so I suggested a Bi guy suck me off. I was completely up front with her. That's my way but it was a big risk. I found an older guy's ad. He offered a cock sucking service. I went with another guy in the same situation. I would stand in front of him seated and he would suck my cock expertly and I shot load after frustrated load into his mouth. It was such a relief. I had the opportunity, in one scenario to have a 5 inch cock erect in front of me so I slid my mouth over it and sucked the way I had been sucked. Another first. I loved doing it and the ooohs and grunts all round said a great time was had by all. Still I did not get come in my mouth and I still haven't. It was an opportunity to relieve myself and have some lustful fun.

 

Not much help here, I was at a friends house sleeping over and the other guest started playing with my dick under covers and out of sight of our sleeping host. I was caught off guard but it so good I didn’t stop him. next day he’s home alone and we’re jacking each other off, the total ecstasy of someone else stroking you while you are ejaculating out weighed the fear and confusion since I wasn’t attracted to him like a girl but a girl had yet to do what he was doing and I did start to reciprocate that day.
After HS we snuck around, my gfs had no idea. Once we upped it to oral it was irresistible, much better head.

 

The first time I had any inkling that I was interested in cock was at a sleepover at a friend’s house. He was a couple of years younger than me. We had been out drinking beer and chasing girls and ended up at his house. We slept in the same bed, wearing just underwear and maybe a t-shirt. I woke up in the middle of the night and I had pushed my friend’s underwear down and I was stroking his cock. It felt so good yet I was surprised that I had done it. And even more surprised that I liked it. After a few minutes, he pulled his underwear up and rolled over. We never talked about it and a few months later he and his mom moved to another state.

It took another 15 years after that for me to finally act on my interest in cock.

 

Wow, that was a long wait. We were just about into hs. During that time I avoided that part since I had girls doing it then. He really still wanted it but right after grad we ended up out and drinking and he wanted to stroke and I let him. Ho lowered his pants and his dick had grown tremendously. We were almost identical a few years back and now my book wormy friend had a 7.25 inch fat cock, dwarfing my skinny 5.5 inch dick. After reaching out and taking it in my hand I was out of the blue so eager suck him. I had never wanted that before but I had already decided years before if he went down on me I would do the same. Now 4 years later and I’m so turned on by his cock I’m wanting to do it every time we could slip away. A say or two later we went Camping together. I found out he was full time on the other team and let him know where I stood. We continued like fuck buddies for the next 5 years. He wasn’t very attracted to giving oral which at that time I thought was odd, since I loved it. At least with him.

 

I'm married and have met up with another married guy twice and done oral, anal and used toys.

We met on a forum for a local gay sauna which we actually went to as a venue for our second meet the other week.

Years ago I did meet someone on Craigslist and met up and gave him a bj

 

Mutual masturbation, schoolmates.

 

I was looking for it. I had denied my bi urges for a long time. Si I went to a known cruising spot a got blown by a guy. Several years later I got up enough nerve to go on Craigslist an find a guy to swap bjs with. I was hooked.

 

I got seduced by an older guy when I was 21. I was nervous about this encounter at first, but once I got over my homophobic hangups, I got off like an intense fireworks display.

This helped me have much greater confidence with both men and women.

 

I was 38 and at a time my wife did not want sex. I was going to adult arcades to watch straight porn. Guys would knock on my door. I ended up letting one guy in. Ran out with shame and disgust afterwords. Well that’s what got me curious and was living a a double life for 13years.
Eventually got caught by the wife 3 years ago. Hit rock bottom but my wife wanted to stay with me. It’s now been 3 years since I’ve been with a guy sexually. I miss it I do watch gay porn but have no I intentions of having sex with men again.