How Did You Start Exploring Bisexuality?

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  1. KC69

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    Would love to hear the details of this encounter.
     
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  2. Oral_Jim

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    I started playing with my friends at a young are starting with "show me yours" that went to "I dare you to ..." so I ended up with a suck buddy at 9. At thirteen I had a friend that liked to bottom so I tried that with him but when I tried to be bottom it hurt so bad that I never went back to that so I have been strictly oral since then.
     
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  3. Poplo.

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    The first time is never pleasant it's the learning phase to what your going to do in the future. I didn't enjoy my first time either but after that its all pleasure. I was a guys pussy for some time after my first time!
     
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  4. bjaddict

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    College roommate offered to suck me off after we were drinking one night. The rest is history. To this day, I love having guys suck on me.
     
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  5. LowHangers

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    In reality; there are far more men out there that have learned that another guy can and will suck his cock with more passion, desire, and provided satisfaction than most women will or can do. I'm not saying that women cannot suck cock well, I'm just saying that many men find out that other men do suck cock better than most women and are OK with allowing another guy suck their cock and swallow their load to get and experience the ultimate blow job.
     
  6. budg282

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    I went thru a bit of an exhibitionist phase and would cam chat, R rated style. To the surprise of nobody ever, I received the most attention from men. At first I found it gross, then after a while I didn't mind, and after a bit more time I enjoyed it. Fast forward a bit more and I started to seek out m4m ads in craigslist and aff. After chatting and flaking a few times, I finally built up the nerve to go thru with it and the rest, as they say, is history--now hopelessly in love with cock.
     
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  7. John1971

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    Have never been with another man - I guess I'm more bicurious than bisexual - but I accidentally watched gay porn - I had no idea what `Greek style wrestling' was at the time, and found myself turned on. I didn't do anything at the time because I was not the only one home. But a few days later, I anally masturbated and absolutely enjoyed it.
     
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  8. EastBayCal

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    My male bisexuality began when I was 12 and an older brother would come into my room at night and snake his hand under my covers and rub my cock thru my tighty whities and eventually work his hand under my wasteband. The warm touch got me so horny and hard that I didn't care who was doing it. He eventually began servicing me orally, which put me over the edge so I would reach out and feel his hard cock between his legs which was much larger than mine. He eventually got me to ejaculate and would swallow at which time I returned the favor. I really enjoyed receiving and giving. This went on for many years.
     
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    It was an adult theatre, got sucked a few times then I finally decided that I can do that and the rest is history
     
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  10. ledzep75

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    I had never really thought much about it until I started meeting couples off of Craigslist. There was one where the wife was really into seeing the guys do each other. In fact I had to suck her husband's cock if I wanted to fuck her so I did and was instantly hooked. I absolutely loved every minute of it.
     
  11. LowHangers

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    I enjoyed a very similar situation myself. I had sucked a guy once prior so when she wanted me to suck her husband off I was all over it like white on rice.
     
  12. topper

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    Its all my wifes fault.
    It (gay/bi stuff) turned her on so much I couldn't resist. She was on the edge of her seat while she watched me get a bj.,but It was almost like she couldnt wait for me to cum because we discussed my first experience with her watching. Her excitement fed my courage to impress her with a great performance for her and a great bj for our friend. After doing it once, I was hooked . She still gets off on watching .
     
  13. Jamie28London

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    Mine started out as a lack of sex and blowjobs from my then wife. I have ahifh sex drive and needed to vent somehow. I wanted to try chatrooms but they were always full of guys. Id chat with them and that would turn into wanking buddies on Skype. That got me into appriciating a nice cock. I then got the idea of what it would be like to suck a cock. I tried it and it made me feel so sexy, i loved it. I did it again and again. She left me which made me free. Soon these Grindr dates are sucking on me, then i was kissing them, rimming them and having full sex. I had bareback sex with a man from my town and i got an STD. Thats when i knew i went too far. Im with a girl now and she loves sex, has a higher sex drive than i do, so im always satisfied. I do have my dildo to play with if i fancy cock every now and then though.
     
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    I masturbated basically daily with my 2-year-older-than-me friend from about 7 until 14, but we never thought we were bi or gay (or at least we sure never discussed it). The furthest that went was mutual masturbation. It must've aroused something in me, though, because freshman year of college I blew a guy at gloryhole in a restroom in a library and that was my first real experience. I had read about it in a local free paper, went there probably 7 or 8 times before someone actually showed up and put their dick through the hole, so I just jerked off and left the other times.
     
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    I got into Bi play when I was married. My now ex and I did some swinging. Mostly 3 some’s with another female (her choice) and sometimes another guy or couple. One day my ex said since I enjoyed seeing her and another female together, she wanted to see two guys giving each other head. At first, I was hesitant. But she pointed out that I had tasted my own cum and other guys cum when we kissed. ( That's another 2 stories, ask if you want to hear them) So, I agreed. Hell, I had thought about it before. Put an ad on AFF. We thought we found a couple. Their message said they were both curious for group play and exploring same sex fun. We set up a date and that morning he messaged that the wife was too nervous to do anything in front of each other. My ex asked me if I felt the same way. I said sort of. She suggested he and I get together alone for beers and porn. She had done FF a couple times without me. I wrote back asking if he wanted come over and he and I could have some beers, watch porn and talk. He agreed. My ex left to go shopping etc. He came over, we did watch porn and drink beer. Both of us got horny (it was mostly bi mmf porn.) We decided to jack off as we watched. We talked as we stroked. Mainly about the guy-to-guy action. I reached over and started to stroke his cock. He started playing with mine. He said he really got off on seeing cum shots. I loaded a homemade porn of the ex wife and me. It had some great cum shots. One was of the night I had my legs up, my cock inches from my own mouth. My ex was using a toy on my ass and stroking me off till I came. Shooting on my face and in my mouth. Then she licked up my cream and we kissed. We snowballed often. He says that is soooooo hot. I figured it was now or never and I leaned over and started to lick his cock head and then took him in my mouth. It felt amazing. Hard and soft at the same time. Next, I’m on my knees sucking him off till he came. I swallowed, it was so good. He did me then, left a little later. My ex came home asked how it went and I told her the whole story. She asked if I liked it and I said, hell yes. Next thing you know we are getting naked and in bed. It made her so wet. Unfortunately, we never heard back from him/them. But it was good as it broke a “taboo” barrier. I was hooked on playing with another guy’s cock. My ex luved it. After that we only looked for guys and couples that wanted bi fun.Sometimes she would sit back with a toy and watch. Other times we would suck together.
     
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    Thanks for sharing your adventure. Welcome to HF. Suggest you introduce yourself. Be well and enjoy!! “Thumbs Up”
     
  17. RnRNvr4Gtz

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    Newly separated and early 50's when I though about expanding and experimenting. Started with straying from the straight porn and watching some MMF. Chatted with a bi-cpl online and arranged to meet at their place. I was early so popped in a local dive for a couple Jack and Cokes. Got to their place, he opened the door and she was sitting on the couch naked. I saw them, they saw me, and all had the same thought, Jackpot. Was offered a beer and sat down next to her and he sat on the other side of me. The lil chit-chat didnt last long.
    He made the first move and started rubbing my cock thru my jeans while I was stroking her thigh. After 60 seconds I was rock hard and reached for my first experience rubbing another guy's cock. We immediately moved upstairs to the king mattress on the floor and off came the laundry. We were stroking each other's cock while she sat in front of us watching.
    Got my first taste of cock when I sat next to her, kissing her when she grabbed his cock and pointed it to my mouth. First tasted his mushroom head just sucking on that when she gently but firmly pushed my head further down his shaft til he was fill tilt touching the back of my throat.
    We passed him back and forth til I needed a taste of her so we got into the triangle, I was eating her, he was sucking me, she was sucking him, then DING, switch. I'm sucking him, he's eating her, and she's sucking me.
    Him and I stood up and he pushed me against the wall, got on his knees and just went cock hungry on me. Couldn't hold out too long and dumped my first load down his throat. He didn't skip a beat, took every drop and kept working me til I got hard again, the whole time she's on the bed with her toy buried deep, turned-on watching us enjoy each other. Took me a bit but I put a second load down his throat. First BJ by another guy was one to remember.
    I plopped down on the bed and he laid down in front of me, legs spread, stroking and pointing his cock towards my mouth. I rolled onto my stomach and took his cock full throat. Wasn't even aware of her til she propped my ass in the air, lubed up my ass, and slid her toy inside me. Seemed like forever that she's pounding me with her toy and I'm deep throating his cock, then they switched positions.
    My tongue is deep in her honey hole when he grabs my hips and pressed his mushroom head into me. I didn't expect things to go that far our first time together, but i wasnt putting up a struggle either. I felt that pop when his head pushed in me. I was completely blown away by how it hurt so good and also by how he felt sliding deeper in my virgin ass. What started slow quickly built up until he couldn't pound me hard or fast enough. As he slowed down I could feel his cock beginning to throb. He drilled me hard one last time and dumped his whole load deep in me.

    3rd inning stretch lol

    After cleaning up and some fluids, it was her turn but I knew I'd be back around to him soon. She's on all fours and I'm fucking her from behind with him standing by me with his cock in my mouth when he caught me by surprise and dumped his warm salty load down my throat. My first time swallowing another guy's load. I knew it wouldn't be the last.
    She rolled over just in time to watch me take his load, then I moved him down, ass propped up, lubed him up, and the wait was over as I pushed into him. She got a POV as she held his ass cheeks apart while I pushed inside him. There was a gleam in her eyes watching her man taking my cock. The harder I fucked him, the more she moaned until I couldn't hold back anymore and dumped my load inside my first guy.
    We went another few innings, 7th inning stretch, cleaned up, got fluids in, and went back at it til 4 in the morning. Gotta say, my first time with the cpl who popped my cherry got me forever hooked. Got together with them twice a month for the next 6 months, even with them bringing in another bi-cpl twice, but that's another real-deal story.
     
  18. Piobaire

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    I grew up in boy's boarding schools, so all of my sexual exploration up to my late teens was with males. Personally, I loved giving head. I enjoyed it so much that for me it bordered upon the mystical and spiritual; it's always seemed like the most natural thing in the world. I've always been Bisexual.
     
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  19. Many years ago, I was a young and horny man looking for a partner or at least a hookup. I was so shy around women in those days, so I would read the personal ads in the local newspapers. One was saying she was a female learning massage techniques and looking for men willing to be massage subjects. So I called her and made a date with her after making sure she was not a prostitute. It was a fun experience, and I had a good climax with her, but she was a he. She was a "trap", a man pretending to be a woman. When we reached the point where she was sucking me and lubing my cock, she was still dressed, wearing a tank top and bra and hotpants. Using the cowgirl position, she would straddle me, pull down the back of the hotpants so she could slide her ass onto my cock still wearing the pants so that the pants blocked my view of her cock. Her ass felt just like a vagina, I could not tell the difference. I wanted to use my hands to fondle her breasts or stroke her clit but she would not let me. After a few minutes she orgasmed and squirted into her pants which sent me over the top of the wave and I came in her ass. Later, after I left I called her number again and asked her, "Are you a man"? She denied it but later on we spoke on the phone, and she confessed. After that I wanted to experience more with a real man who was not hiding in the closet. Now I love gay sex!
     
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    I'm glad you wound up having a positive experience from this, but this masseuse's actions were totally not cool. I'm the first person to support same sex fun (and by the way look forward to the day I experience that myself for the first time), but only if and only if all the cards are on the table. There's no informed consent if there's deception. You can argue that's coercion. Every adult has the right to make informed choices, and to turn down choices based on their own reasoning.
     

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