How Did You Start Exploring Bisexuality?

older neighbor guy when i was around 14. He had playboy mags he let me look at. Then we watched some porn together and were naked, He sucked me often, which i loved then one day I wanted to suck his dick and it was wonderful. Eventually after about a year of this, he did anal on me

 

I had a gay co worker that I worked on several projects with. He didn’t let it be known he was gay but I knew from a good source. Had a lot of late after hours projects we worked on and we became pretty good friends. After while I noticed he would kinda flirt a little with me. Caught him checking me out from time to time. It kinda got my mind going. Wandering to places it has never been. This went on for like six months. One day he asked if I wanted to grab drinks after work. Went to a sports bar and threw a few back. I was divorced and my kid was at his moms this particular week. I ordered us another round which we polished off fast. Without even thinking I invited to my place for more drinks and a dip in the jacuzzi. All innocent in my intentions.but I guess I gave off some signs to him. Fast forward to my place, we get there and of course with the spur of the moment invite to sit in a jacuzzi, he had nothing to wear. I told him he could wear a pair I had. I got them for him. Fired up the heat and bubbles. Got the beers out. I headed in to change. When I got back out he was already in. I got in and we drank and talked for an hour or so. He had to use the restroom so he got up and out. At that time I realized he never put on the swim shorts I gave him. I instantly got horny. I had been in there over an hour and the man I’m talking and having drinks with was naked. He came back and got in. Our conversation immediately went to his lack of clothing. Then to how I felt about it. Then to sexual topics. Which them I found myself naked. Sitting next to him playing and touching eachothers cocks. We moved it inside and into my bedroom. We proceeded to having great oral sex. That moved into anal sex. Here I was a straight divorced dad in bed with a man in the spoon position with him deep inside me and I was in heaven.

we pretty much hung around my place that weekend and he showed me all the joys of being with a man. I was hooked. We carried on a secret relationship for 3 years until he was transferred to Chicago. Our boss found out he was gay and wanted him gone.

 

Oh that's to bad.........well fine your self a replacement..........

 

I have

 

Are you gay now or bisexual?

 

I did not "explore" bisexuality. It just happened suddenly when I ceased being a virgin at age 22.

First, I was pleasantly seduced by an older man who was giving me a massage when I spent the night at his rural property. Then, within a couple weeks, I started having sex with a woman who lived in my Berkeley rooming house.

Both of those experiences left me permanently bisexual. I never had any thought about being bisexual before all this happened so quickly, but no looking back, and certainly no regrets.

 

I think it's fucking horrible your boss didn't want your friend and coworker around just because he was gay. I pray for the day shithead bosses don't do that anymore.
But otherwise I'm happy for you for letting things lead to something you apparently enjoyed!

 

More into men

 

Long story but I didn’t experiment w a guy till I was in my mid 30s in now 50.Let a guy in a arcade suck my cock. Well super ashamed right afterwards. But curiosity got me and I started watching gay porn. Got more curious and hit up Craig’s list. Hooked up with several guys doing more and more. Ended up meeting one guy that I connected well with. Explored about everything 2 guys could do sexually with him. I now except my sexuality and I’m at the very least very bisexual and borderline gay. I actually enjoy sex with men better then woman. Btw I’m married to a woman.

 

20 years ago in the Deep South. Different time and place. My boss ended up getting fired for sexual harassment and I took his spot lol.

not going to say I had a hand in setting him up but…..

 

Much older next door neighbor guy.

 

I was 18. Had a bi roommate in college who offered me blowjobs. I realized after trying it that I loved the idea of using guys for head or to get my ass eaten. It's always been one directional but many have enjoyed that dynamic with me.

 

Hot, I first come across it as I noticed my gay flat mate watching me fuck a girl..I could see him walking....made me fucker her harder...she eventually agreed for him to be in the same room as us fucking and he was wanking...she got into it and asked me to walk him over her pussy and cum...I then slideml my cock into her cum filled pussy

 

Have you sucked in front of your wife yet?

 

The alternative was "nothing". She suggested, so I finally tried it. I tried it because it was acceptable to her. It also brought sex back into our lives with something other than a Strapon.

 

Some times it takes a little push....................It was probably some thing she had wanted in the first place! Enjoy..................

 

I hope that boss doesn't try shift you because of your sexual orientation.
Perhaps you could blow him so he keeps his mouth shut, just saying , he could be in the closet.

Im straigh, but curious. No point in being homophobic whatever your preference.

Most guys think gay chicks are hot or at least lesbian acts are,

 

I started in 1992 at 30 when my first girlfriend broke up with me, and today, even after 29 years, I am still exploring and increasing my bisexuality, i.e. the gay part of myself. That breakup devastated me, and I hit the road for 5 months camping, hostelling and motelling across Canada and the US, during which my desires for sex with men first appeared. After a week of having the greatest nightly masturbation in my life in Washington state motel rooms, to gay porn magazines, I headed straight to San Francisco, where I finally had a real cock an inch from my face in a strip show a couple of hours after landing in the Castro district. OMG! Where has this beautiful man cock been all my life?! Later, back home, my powerful gay desires forced me out of my cum-splattered bedroom and home office (from jerking off to almost exclusively gay porn and fantasies almost every day) to seek real guys every couple of weeks for anonymous oral sex in arcades, porn theaters, bathhouses, gay sex clubs, back rooms and patios of gay bars, and even a huge monthly gay orgy for a year when I lived in Toronto. I was especially driven out to find real life gay intimacy every time I was rejected by a woman. But though I always wanted to fuck and be fucked, I never had any desire for anything anal with any guy I was naked with those first 21 years: it was just oral sex.

But when I finally felt desire for the first time for a real guy's ass in a bathhouse in Berlin, the out of this world enjoyment and intimacy of rimming and fucking him awakened my gay desires an order of magnitude greater, and I quit all anonymous encounters and I've just been getting together with guys in each others homes for more personal intimacy since, including anal play, and it has been extraordinary. After breaking up with only my second girlfriend just before the pandemic hit, all I'm looking for are local guys to have sex with (I'm not looking for women for the first time in my life, at least for now). It's just an ever increasing acceptance and enjoyment of the gay part of myself.

 

I started in 1992 at 30 when my first girlfriend broke up with me, and today, even after 29 years, I am still exploring and increasing my bisexuality, i.e. the gay part of myself. That breakup devastated me, and I hit the road for 5 months camping, hostelling and motelling across Canada and the US, during which my desires for sex with men first appeared. After a week of having the greatest nightly masturbation in my life in Washington state motel rooms, to gay porn magazines, I headed straight to San Francisco, where I finally had a real cock an inch from my face in a strip show a couple of hours after landing in the Castro district. OMG! Where has this beautiful man cock been all my life?! Later, back home, my powerful gay desires forced me out of my cum-splattered bedroom and home office (from jerking off to almost exclusively gay porn and fantasies almost every day) to seek real guys every couple of weeks for anonymous oral sex in arcades, porn theaters, bathhouses, gay sex clubs, back rooms and patios of gay bars, and even a huge monthly gay orgy for a year when I lived in Toronto. I was especially driven out to find real life gay intimacy every time I was rejected by a woman. But though I always wanted to fuck and be fucked, I never had any desire for anything anal with any guy I was naked with those first 21 years: it was just oral sex.

But when I finally felt desire for the first time for a real guy's ass in a bathhouse in Berlin, the out of this world enjoyment and intimacy of rimming and fucking him awakened my gay desires an order of magnitude greater, and I quit all anonymous encounters and I've just been getting together with guys in each others homes for more personal intimacy since, including anal play, and it has been extraordinary. After breaking up with only my second girlfriend just before the pandemic hit, all I'm looking for are local guys to have sex with (I'm not looking for women for the first time in my life, at least for now). It's just an ever increasing acceptance and enjoyment of the gay part of myself.

 

Sorry about the double post: I was having some technical problems. Is there a way to delete a post you made? I see there's a window of opportunity where there is an Edit button, like I see on this present post, but there isn't one on my earlier ones, and even when you choose the Edit button, there's no Delete.

 

like most people I guess. a friend and I started touching each other when we were teenagers. had my first full sex with a man in my mid twenties as a birthday present for my wife (now my ex).