How did you learn you liked spanking?

I knew from the start of puberty that I liked bottoms. It was later that I discovered spanking magazines and it just clicked in place. Since then I have been a dedicated spanko. My wife does not share the same level of interest as she is more Dom than Sub. I have always identified as Top but recently have been thinking about receiving which I am sure my wife would be oblige.

 

Thanks for sharing. In my case I am always the one over her knee or spread out on the bed. From the beginning my wife made it very clear that I would NEVER spank her, just not her thing. She usually spanks me twice a month.

 

It occurred very gradually over at least a year. She and I both had busy schedules with work and college, so we had very little 'spare' time.
One day she showed me her copy of "The Joy of Sex" (a very popular book in the 70's. We both skimmed through the book, most of the
described activities were way outside both of our interests. We agreed to come up with 3 things that we would be willing to try (the book
had a VERY long list of possibilities). Her three items were: erotic bondage, cunnilingus, and spanking. I was surprised by the last item
and I expected that she was thinking playful taps. My three items were: finding an isolated place in the forest to get naked, a threesome
with two females, and Fem Dom which I was curious about. She jumped at the Fem Dom subject and explained that it includes spanking
and other such activities. Over quite a while, we agreed that I would accept an "introduction to spanking" from her, which we eventually
did, and later, quite a few times. I was 28 at the time.

 

Not really into spanking. Butt (pun intended) I did have an infrequent FWB after my divorce. that loved being spanked. A first for me. Apparently I was not aggressive enough, and she would say some things that told me what she wanted. Harder…HARDER! Her pale ass was nice and rosey by the time I was done. it didn’t really do much for me, but she seemed pleased.