How did you learn you liked spanking?

I can’t remember the interest ever not being there. I tried to incorporate it into games as a kid, but didn’t actually like getting it at the time. I was probably 10-11 when I knew I really liked it. Around the same time I found the internet and found out I wasn’t the only one.

 

Did you like giving or receiving

 

Both but I usually like giving more.

 

I like receiving wife wants no part of being the spankee

 

Love receiving too

 

I discovered my fascination by spanking when reading about spankings in books and advice columns, I was a teen. I fantasised about being spanked all my adult life, but was ashamed to ask my partners until I was in my 30-es. Today I have a spanking partner, who is also my lover - but not a boyfriend. I've been spanked by him since 2019, almost 5 years. I'd love to get more - vurrently it's like once a week.

 

Do you ever get to spank him?

 

Been thinking about spanking women for as long as I can remember. Took me a long time to actually tell a partner. Now I have a wife I spank regularly since the secret is out.

 

Does she ever spank you?

 

I love to be spank my girlfriend use to spank me and she love being spank that’s when I knew I loved being spanked

 

Just getting my spanking from the wife. She uses a 14” wooden paddle on my ass. I got a hard spanking tonight harder that my usual spanking. I got 30 swats on each cheek (she makes me count them out) she then proceeded to massage my ass and play with the cock for about one minute then 30 more on each cheek for being a bad boy. For some reason tonight’s spanking had more sting than normal. After another massage she gave me 10 very hard ones on each cheek to finish a total of 140 swats hurt little hell but afterwards I was sure glad she spanked me. I love this woman.

 

The interest was always there for me, even before I was sexually aware. Any mention of words assosciated with spanking done something
to me and I didn't understand why at the time, I just knew I liked it.
Never punished like that at home although I recieved the strap, or belt as we called it here in Scotland, at school but never found that
experience erotic at all. My desire was to be taken over the knee of a mature lady for a hand spanking in a domestic type of scenario.
I fantasised about this quite a lot. It wasn't until I was older and had moved to London that I finally made this a reality.
Over the years I visited Domme ladies but never found the dungeon scene very attractive, domestic punishment was what I desired.
There doesn't seem to be many professional ladies here who are willing to advertise spanking in this manner, I suspect that is
due to the fact that many guys are overweight these days and an OTK position is impractical.
I've also been spanked by a few guys but it's not really what I'm looking for at all.

 

There's a common theme when it comes to spanking. Many like or want to be spanked. Or even just try it. But their current partner doesn't know that or wants nothing to do with it. And except for mostly anonymous sites like this one and others, it's hard to find someone to spank or be do the spanking. Think of it. I can walk into a bar and flirt and maybe something will come of that. I have a lot of friends who completely know what I like sexually and often participate. Most of them are married but we found a way to talk about sex. Now think of how hard that would be if I walked into a bar and hinted at spanking. The odds, already low just talking about sex, drop even further. BUT, I believe that there are a lot more people out there with an interest in spanking than are willing to openly share their desire. It can be a challenge. Sites like this are good and so are personals but it takes time to get comfortable enough to decide and meet and there's also distance and time constraints. I still believe that dropping a hint and saying that "hey, if you know someone, let me know" works as well as anything else. For me, D didn't even say the words. She just looked at the BDSM toys in the toy store and then I figured it out and now we can talk about it and that was after years of knowing her. And she had never been spanked but was heavily turned on by reading and seeing toys. That's how she found out. My luck!!

 

As you get older, you get bolder I think. Now, I will say to someone, “Behave or I’ll pull your pants down and spank you”. Or if someone tells me to behave, I’ll. Say “Or what?? You going to spank me??” I love seeing reactions.

 

I love when someone tells me to behave or they will spank me I love to be spank..

 

It is very erotic for me

 

Nothing to be ashamed over -- a higher percentage of people engage in or like spanking than play golf.

 

We were kids and made quite a mess and dirt at my friend's place. My friend's father came home and spanked us, it hurt a little but I enjoyed it.