For me it was just old fashioned luck. I knew him distantly and once he asked me to help him with some issues. After I was done, he asked me to sit down for a coffee. We chatted for maybe two hours and that was it. We agreed that I drop by next week and I did. So fast forward to the point where he made a move and I was pretty much into this with every soul of my body.
Craig List was the best for me. I hooked up with so many other married men for mutual oral sex. I had no idea that many of us married men were out there sucking cock on a regular basis. Craig List was the perfect place to connect too. I was hooking up with 3-5 different men on a weekly basis and loving every minute of it all. It was so exciting to return home to my wife having sucked three guys off and swallowed their loads.
Craigslist was the best. Many blowjobs were given by me via CL. My longtime suck buddy that I still have is a CL connection.
I had the same question as the starter of this topic. I live too remote to just walk in a bar or so. After one more or less coincidental online meeting that finally, after several years, ended in a hotel room, I longed for more, but it took another 6 years to find a date on silverdaddies. 2 months later I had that luck again. Now I just discovered hipforums. Maybe find the next one here.