Hi Guys and Girls, Me and my girlfriend have semi regular anal sex, I am a large/average guy (about 7 inches, fairly thick) and my girlfriend is quite petite. When we have Anal, which is great for both of us, I can only go in 2 or 3 inches (with lube) before it gets really tight. I would love to go in all the way and cum deep in her ass but am worried it might do her some damage. She's OK to try even though it does hurt her sometimes but it's fun for us both. Thoughts/similar experiences? I'm happy to take things slow and make it amazing for us both.
Physiologically, the human rectum will easily accommodate the full length of a normal human penis. The organ itself however is SATURATED with nerve endings - very different to a vagina. The more that goes in, the more nerves are affected and pain increases, which in turn can cause contraction of the rectum - it becomes very tight, resulting in the more you push, the more it hurts. It's that pain threshold that will determine how deep you can go. Some people are very sensitive, others thrive: everyone is different. To answer your original question, how deep can you go? Till she says, "STOP!" and means it.
its bigger after ring so don't worry http://www.macmillan.org.uk/Images/Cancerinfo/Cancertypes/2012/analcanal_2012.jpg
Ease into it slowly over time so she continues to enjoy it. She will adapt and eventually be able to take all of you, and you both will enjoy it.
You can use a thin long flexible dildo to let her rectum get used to be penetrantet. Anal sex takes time and patience don't rush it or it will become a disaster for one of you
I would love to cum while balls deep in my gf ass, do any girls from the forum enjoy that or prefer just light penetration?
No worries. I have 8" but my girlfriend has a nice plump butt. Once I get going a good rhythm, the lube level is right, she relaxes her sphincter, and gets into it, I can sink all 8" into her till our pelvic bones grind. Cumming deep in a woman's ass will make your eyes cross dude!
As the others have said until she says NO. My missus seems to prefer balls deep with short thrusts can be hard thrust if I can do it shortly, she hates long hard thrusts in and out... apparently makes her wanna go do the toilette I gotta start learning Bruce Lee's 1 inch punch... in my case I shall call it the 1 inch thrust
OK Steve, here's a lesson in butt sex. First lesson, listen to your girl. She knows how deep is deep enough. Second lesson: Inside the anus is the rectum. It's essentially the end of the colon. Your girl's rectum is probably 3"-4" long, I guessing. Then the rectum makes a very sharp turn and becomes the sigmoid colon. If she wants you to go deeper (past her rectum), she has got to really want it. First of all, that is where her poop begins, I guarantee it. So unless she is into cleansing and is OK with an enema in her future then neither of you are going to want to be going there. Assuming she's deeply cleansed, she needs to essentially straighten out her sigmoid colon. This is something that she absolutely needs to do herself...with a toy first. If she can't get a toy past her rectum, then she sure isn't going to get you up there. Once she decides that you going deeper is what she wants, then she needs to control the depth, not you. One last note, keep in mind that your penis gets wider toward the base. It's entirely possible that depth is not he issue. It could easily be (and likely is) that her anus can't stretch wide enough as you go deeper. That's just a matter of time and practice.
I take my man in upto the hilt, Have never had an enema and never had any poop problems, always come out clean.
Maybe not all but probably around 50%. Practice makes perfect, I find it difficult to cum without going all in.
