how could I sexify my look

oooh glasses.... I like glasses, I have Audrey style Glasses

 

You are gorgeous just the way you are but I understand you wanting to feel that way about yourself.

I just recently tried to sexify my own look. I bought some really cute tops, low rise jeans, shoes, sandals. I did a whole new wardrobe make over actually. I've been changing my hairstyles. Not cutting it but styling it differently. I used to wear the same hairstyle every single day. I needed a change. I even noticed it has brightened my face up and my smile.

You have a natural sexyness about you. Once you get in-tuned with that about yourself I don't think you'll have any problem seeing YOU in a sexy Light.

 

lol i agree.

 

you say you didn't start this thread to get all the comments about you already being sexy but... truthfully, you are the sexiest girl ever, from your posts your personality seems sexy too, there really is no way I can think of for you to be sexier... unless you smell bad or burp alot or something like that....

 

Well, to me sexiness really comes most from the personality. But, I guess physical sexiness to me would probably a girl in bell bottoms with no shoes. However, I hardly represent the general population Whoever mentioned the fruity smells was right on though. I absolutely love that. Nothing overwhelming so that it's all I notice about you, but enough that I do notice it without being right ontop of you. But, really all you have to do is know you are sexy, and people will find you sexy. I hope that was of at least some help

 

Latex Skirts\Dresses = teh sexay

 

Red lip stick I think is sexy, but it doesnt look good on everyone, but you are certainly out of this world gorgeous so it will work for you. I also think personality is good, be mysterious, but not too mysterious that you seem antisocial. Just give off an air of mystery and give a lot of sexy side glaces, adding a seductive smirk on your face....And yes scent is important I like feminine flowery scents they arent so overwhelming. Also I agree youd look awesome with a pair of glasses, not only will you look beautiful but studious as well : )..

 

Every Guy Likes Different Things....

 

Being yourself is the only thing that's gonna do that.

If you practice special "moves" or "looks" that other people suggest to you will make you look sexy, you will be artificial instead. Please don't do that to yourself -- you ARE sexy already.

Are you trying to attract a specific person in particular? Because if you're not, and you are looking for one universal look that will make everyone think, "Wow, she's sexy," you aren't gonna find one. There's no such thing. There are as many different ideas about what is sexy as there are people to hold them.

Me, I think you would look super sexy if you went barefoot all the time, showing off your adorable little toes. (I've seen the pics you've posted, and you really DO have cute feet!) But that doesn't mean that other guys wouldn't feel the opposite way about you going barefoot -- maybe they can't stand to see a girl's feet, or they think they're just not attractive.

I keep getting the mental image of Ben Stiller from Zoolander, shooting his special named "looks" to be sexy. That's what it sounds like you're looking for. Please discontinue this search, as it will probably be fruitless anyway, and I would hate for you to become shallow and superficial with a "sexy look" that you contrived and consciously engage in. That just doesn't work.

Blue skies, beautiful,
-Jeffrey

 

Are the photos that appear with your post actually of you or of someone else? If they're of you, you do bear a strong resemblance to actress Julia Stiles ("What I Hate About You," "Save the Last Dance"). And if that's the case, you don't need to "sexify" your look; you're quite sexy as it is.

On the other hand, I know first-hand that closely resembling a celebrity can at times be amusing and at times be annoying. People say I closely resemble the late "King of Punk Funk," Rick James. Most of the time, I take it in stride, but there are other times when some jerk decides to get on my case about it and it bugs me to no end.
-- Skeeter

 

i agree with the whole inner-sexiness/intimacy vibe, rather than trying to be real 'in-your-face' about it.

excuse me if i sound like a middle school guidance counselor, but nothing you could possibly do would be more beautiful than being yourself.

this weekend, i saw a girl dancing, and she was a decent dancer... and then she started running her hands through her hair. you know, where you grab the front/top part with both hands, and run them through your hair to the back of your scalp. it wouldn't have looked odd if she only did it once, but she did it over and over and over. it was like someone told her it was a sexy move, but forgot to mention that doing it more than occassionally is overkill. it was obvious she was trying to make people look at her and think she was hot shit, which totally took away from her sexiness. horribly contrived. like something out of the dirty clubs back home that the sleezy girls do. totally unnatural and out of place and utterly goofy in the worst sense. so if you take any tips, beware looking fake.

cleanliness is really the only thing one can do to their looks to make them sexy to the most people, and it's obvious and basic. some like girls in makeup, some hate it, some don't care, but MOST dig a clean face. body shape and size aren't as important as a clean body. nothing wrong with being dirty, but when sex is concerned, most of us would like to know that whats between someone legs isn't gonna smell like rot. when kissing is concerned, a clean mouth full of white teeth is sexier than festering onion breath and dirty teeth. you know, just basic hygene, which you already have a good grasp of, i'm sure.

a lot of people have recommended scents, which can be good, but don't wear one that's too strong. lots of people get headaches from strong smells, especially perfume, so you don't want to offend anyone you're trying to attract. when i have a headache, i try to get away from the cause. a subtle scent would be better, especially since another person would have to lean in to smell it. besides, you don't want anyone to sneeze on you. and again, it encourages intimacy, people would be more inclined to hug you or get close. also, it's better to not have a bunch of smells going on at once.. they can clash. victorias secret makes some shampoos that smell nice, and they don't test on animals. but if you have scented shampoo and perfume and scented deoderant, and scented hand cream, and scented everything, it can be a bit much.

sexiness is confidance, the mind, the heart, attitude and inner beauty. learn a new instrument, read some philosophy books, take a gourmet baking class, volunteer at your local animal shelter. something that makes YOU stand out. a guy in a humane society t-shirt turns my head faster than a guy dressed to the nines. have fun with whatever you do because you want to be there. a good attitude will get you further than any smell or costume or face paint could.

to prove my point on inner beauty, my friends have a code-system for talking about and rating girls. the most important part of their code-talk is whether the girl looks like she has a personality. if not, her best rating is, "fuck-able and forgetable." and i always thought that proved that those girls really weren't sexy, because when someone is sexy you respect them. even the ones that dressed nicely didn't get respect if their personality wasn't apparent, or if the image they're projecting doesn't seem to match up with who they really are.

 

ah, what good points.

I can't really offer you tips on how to look sexy - meh, that's such a hard to define thing.

but feeling sexy/confident in your own body seems to help, i guess.

some stuff that might promote that - hmm, maybe if there's a special occasion that you want to feel sexy for, then take your time getting ready - be indulgent.

have a buddle bath with candles, maybe some incense, some super sexy music... When you get out, leave the candles, music and incense on while you dress. before you put clothes on though, slowly rub some really nice moisturiser all over, especially concentrating on your breasts. It's like a self-massage, it'll help you feel all sensual and sexy before you go out, and that inner self confident glow can be great

 

I kinda like anything that lets me see some cheek. Boy shorts are great!!




even on boys.

I like some mystery, some cleavage, but some covered also. A bare midriff is nice.

Guys, same thing kind of. I like white underpants, either the boy shorts with some cheek showing or a pair of briefs with a nice bulge. Tight pecs. Thats all a lot sexier then some guy standing there with his cock hanging.

The bulge really turns me on. It leaves some mystery, but still gives me a pretty good idea of what I'm in for when I get those underpants off him. it's a rush watching that bulge get bigger and harder when he takes off my clothes or fondles me.

Retro, you are sexy, and regardless of what you wear, I am going to savor seeing what new mystery is revealed as I remove each item.