how can so much change

Okay then, I can understand your point. By emotional, I didn't mean impulsive and violent type of emotional, I mean careing about you and your feelings, being open and being comfortable with the concept of crying and such. By unemotional, I took it as meaning the kind of boys who are like mascara, they run at the first sight of emotion. None of the guys I know/hang out with would EVER abuse a girl, or anyone else for that matter (some of them would easilly get their asses handed to them).

 

they were both of those. I meant both. Emotional, as in has strong emotions. Crying = strong reaction to sadness. Physically hurting = strong reaction to jealousy/anger/physical lust.

I never was hit by a guy. I dont really want to go in to with you, but I have never dated a guy who hit me. I didnt mean that kind of person.

 

Well, I am sorry for you shitty experiances. It really sucks when people get too caried away with emotions and whatnot. I consider myself more emotional than a lot of guys, but I know I wouldn't ever do anything to really hurt someone I loved. First of all, I wouldn't physically hurt anyone. Not unless someone else initiated a violent act on me or someone I love, which is a whole nother story. But I wouldn't ever hurt anyone physically. It isn't in my nature, and I despise violence in any of its forms. I know their are a lot of other guys out there who feel the way I do about this stuff, I think you were just unfortunate to date some major asshole(s).

 

"being comfortable with the concept of crying"


"in touch with his feelings"

Poofters?

 

Ummm. What does that word mean?

 

i wish this thread would die...bums me out everytime i see it =/

 

rriiiighht


only just seen this thread, and im guessing since ive not read past page two, it will have majorly devolved


but anyhooo


hev, things work out. Maybe not in the most ideal way, but in time, things will work out and will get better.




AND, referring to earlier posts..

i'm honestly nothing more than a bitter old man waiting to grow into it.

 

That would be British slang for homosexual.

As to you're "swinging" metrosexual friend; on the quality scale of women, "swingers" are a half-step above hookers.

 

HAHAHAHA

Its what you are bru

 

HAHAHA


I find that way funnier then I should

 

Pretty amazing, isn't it...
We learn time and time again never to make giant plans such as your's, but yet we continue to do it time and time again.

It happened (is happening) to me. Sad, sad... but yeah, life goes on. It makes it easier when you realise so.

 

<hugs>.

I looove you.

Whatever you did (no matter how horrible it is), she'll forgive you eventually. She'll go through all those stages (denial, anger, sadness, etc), and then she'll realize that she can't live without you.

Chin up, darlin.

 

awww thanks so much for that post!!

and i'm sure you are right.. the situation just kinda sucks a little bit tho.. but my chin is definitly up

 

I find the British much funnier than I probably should.

 

the list so far:
-lost my best friend.
-had all my future plans change.
-only getting a place with cassie now.
-love life is getting better...
-i fucked up completely.

well you didnt lose one best friend.........WEED!

 

My moms reading a book by an antropologist who studied the English, its fascinating.


English people are so strange, and amusing....

 

I thought there were more than weed in life

Eh well silly me

 

Hey remember Toy Story, and that Randy Newman song, "You've Got a Friend In Me?"

You've got a friend in weed.
Oh you've got a friend in weed!
Some other folks might be a little bit more buzzed than I am,
More stoned and higher too.
Maybe,
But they won't smoke you
The way I do, it's me and you.
Oh and as the years go by.
Our loved plant will never die.
You're gonna see its our destiny!
You've gotta friend in weed.
You've gotta friend in weed.
You've got a friend in weed!