We're cheaper too I'm sorry things have to be like that for you , it sucks ... Like George Harrison said, all things must pass . It's just hard for everybody to accept that fact ... I really things will get better for you in the next weeks
If you're really that new at this, I'll give you a hint. Most guys don't "open up" and share their feelings with each other. The exceptions are: 1)after a case of beer 2)if somebody close to you dies (and then you have maybe a half-day window of oppurtunity) 3)post-near death experience. Other than that, bottle that shit up.
so know what you mean hon... if life gives you lemons make lemonade?.. I just lost someone really close to me tonight and this is the 4th death of someone close to me already in 2006... and Vic was like... he was like my brother.... *sigh* but you just gotta push on right...but anyways Im here for ya laday
antione - that george harrison thing is so right.. and i have adopted that way of thinking. whatever happens right now, it was meant to work out that way.. otherwise, it woulda worked out some other way. richie - i wish!!!! i dont have a ride.. and im only here for another day and a half. but i SWEAR when i move back we WILL meet, especially since you will be in wilmington then maygun - im so sorry, and thank you for the kind words.
im ready to talk to ya now if you need me to...i want to call you, but you said you'd call me, so i'll just wait until your ready...cause i serioulsy, really, need to know so badly. fuck it, i need to know now...im callin
Well, I didn't mean open up in that sense really. While I think all that "Real men don't cry and share feelings they bottle up their emotions and die 10 years early" sort of stuff is actually complete utter bullshit for those of us less highly evolved (hahaha, I don't even beleive in evolution), I do see your point that guy generally don't open up as much. I meant it in more of a superficial way than how you seemed to take it. I am a very closed person, moreso than you I would say. Not because I feel I have to present a macho type image, but because I don't have a high trust of other people.
I don't know man, I have a friend who is going through sort of a metro-sexual phase and is a very emotional guy, and he actually gets a lot of action (he is a swinger).
then the girls who date him are fools. emotional = drama. no good. sometimes scary. i mean, unemotional can be annoying, but at least you dont have to deal with extreme emotions.
Sorry I haven't really been reading this thread but I wanted to tell wildflowereyes that you are super fuckin' hott.
Well first of all, swingers don't date (steadily at least. Althou he used to date steadilly). A lot of women would probably rather have a more open guy who is intuned with his emotions. But hey, if you want an insensitive guy who will make you feel like you are in a meaningless loveless relationship by the time you are 40 go for it! But keep in mind, guys who are emotional are also the guys who are the really romantic types.
TRUE THAT! I agree with everything you just said. i'd rather have a guy that was in touch with his emotions than i fucking asshole that wont ever tell me what he is feeling.
well I've dated both types and the ones who dont get emotional about shit are more easy going and easier to have more than just sex with. A boyfriend involves the word friend for a reason. I want to be with someone I can hang out with. The emotional guys I've been abused me. I think I'll stick to the ones that I can be more than just "the girl" with. I want more than a boy to be with, I want a best friend. And theres a difference between caring about me when I'm having a hard time and being emotional. They do care. They just don't get all Oprah on me.