How can i get my mom to wear a bra / suitable clothing when my boyfriend comes over?

I have an issue and maybe its me insecure? I dunno

But hanging around the house you wear something comfy and for us girls it normally means bra off if no one is around.

But i wish my mom would put a bra on / wear more suitable clothes when my boyfriend comes over

I trust my boyfriend and i trust my mom but i think she should wear a bra when hes over. Ive been seeing him for about 3 months and ive always hated that my mom is braless when hes there. I wish she would just throw one on when he comes over.

Like i said i trust my boyfriend but its easy to notice shes not wearing one because of her nipples. I trust him but ive seen his eyes looking in that direction a few times when he hasnt known ive noticed him looking. If i can notice him looking in that direction then surely she has noticed?? But she just keeps chatting to him.

I definitely wouldnt say my mom flirts with him but shes definately very talkative with him and like i said ive noticed him looking in that direction (her boobs). Am i being insecure or can i ask my mom to wear one?

I havnt asked yet because i just think it will make her think that i dont trust her or cause some kind of weird reaction.

We havnt always been super close and i dont want to lose the little bit of closeness i have with her now

Thanks

 

Don't ever go to a beach with him.. you seen those thoughtless bitches?

Your mum for goodness sake! You really need to get over it, he is gonna look at all kinds of things... You notice your mum's nipples, so will he..

 

I think the beach is a bit different tho

Yes if i can notice so can he. So shouldnt she wear one when hes over? Out of respect because he's noticed?

 

Errr, I dont think you do

 

I do. Definately. Just because of her nipples its noticeable and so i think she should wear one

 

You do, definately

But you are on an internet forum asking how you can stop your boyfriend banging your mom

 

Im not asking anything like that!

Sorry if it sounds that way??

 

Just keep them two apart, sounds like you picking up on (subconsciously) more than him just looking at her nipples

And stop talking about your mothers nipples, otherwise everyone will think you are actually the boyfriend

 

I never thought of that VG... Got it! LOL

 

Im totally lost sorry

 

Oh wow ok

 

Whose house is it?

 

moms but i pay almost half everything

 

What Vanilla Gorilla is saying is that if you keep talking about your moms nipples people will starting wondering if you are really the boyfriend who is posting. And posting as the daughter to see how people will reply.

 

kind of a lost cause to wear a bra when he is over if your mom isn't wearing one.....

when 2 women are in a room and one is sporting nipples and one isn't every guy that isn't gay will be looking at the nipples even if the non nipples belong to his girlfriend.....

 

I was going to post something along these lines.
Buy a nice house for yourself. You know, with a big yard. 3 or 4 car garage for you and your boyfriends cars.

 

your common sense and expert logic are quite a contrast to my haphazard assessment of this young ladies situation

I feel that you and I should explore your thoughts on breasts further...perhaps over skype

see what I did there?

 

Let me ask the OP, when you are braless, does your boyfriend look at you as much he does at your mom when she is braless?

How much of your issue is "I don't want him looking at other women's nipples"?
How much of it is "women, especially my MOM!!, shouldn't be braless around men"?
How much of it is "I don't want him noticing my mom at all"?

Would you also being braless alleviate your discomfort?

(BTW, I agree with the "her house, her rules, her clothing choices" crowd)