We have been married for 27 years to a petite 503 120 nurse who is now 60 with a smoking hot ass she is spunky and outgoing. We first met when we worked together but we really did not associate much other then work related stuff. I had heard she had a couple relationship that lead to sex and blow jobs but that was rumor. Later as we talked she invited me to go to the beach to drop off her son at her mothers house for a few days. When we got to the beach they all wanted yo go swimming and while doing so she was all over me in the water and didn't care who watched. I was 28 she was 34. I could tell then she wanted dick. After the beach we went to her mother house dropped off son and went out to eat. We had some food and a couple beers. At that time I mustard up the courage to kiss her and she liked it. We stayed for a while and decided to leave for home. As I entered the car and prior to pulling out she began to fondle me and give me a blow job. After the blow job she gave me a hand job all the way home which was an 1 1/2 hour drive. When she pulled into my driveway I asked her to stay and she said she could not as she had to get home. The next day she called me and wanted to meet she came to my house and no sooner as she entered the door her jeans and panties were off and she wanted dick. she could not get enough as her pussy was tight. she fucked me all night and did not want to stop. From that point on we fucked often but we were never verbally sexually about stuff. after several months passed she had to go on a business trip with several of our coworkers two males and one female. both males she knew and one she was close too. She later called me and said her and that male friend had bought some beer and had placed same in the bath tub with ice to chill. I didn't think much but back then I was extremely jealous of her around guys. On the second day of her trip, and when I got to work I heard my coworkers talking about that they had heard from the male friend and he told them that she had given him a blow job in a hot tub. I suspected both had been drinking and back then she would drink and while doing so would get flirty and horny. I was mad but my coworkers at the time didn't know we were dating so I listened. I called her on her last day there she was eating and drinking later that night I called her and she didn't answer. when she got home she later told me the other male friend was fond of her and was trying to get into her room. I didn't say anything but did think she had sex with him and that was why she didn't answer. Later after her trip that male friend disclosed to me he was fond of her but never said anything further. As our relationship grew one night she called and said to meet her at a marina where she would be hanging out with her girlfriend and her boyfriend drinking beers. It was midnight when i got there and as i entered house i was told she was still down by the beach with a guy they all had met that night. as i walked down it was dark but i saw a male get up from a blanket were she laid asleep or passed out. the male walked away and onto a boat without saying a thing. She was laying passed out on blanket in a sun dress and next to her was her panties. the sun dress was pulled up almost to her crotch. I woke her up she was happy to see me but she walked down into the water and it looked like she was washing her pussy. she walked out of the water and wanted to have sex on a bench. I was mad so we didn't As years passed my jealous bone subsided and I became obsessed with wanting her fucked by another man. At that time we were both in our 50's. I could never get the courage to ask her so I would put her in positions with my male friends alone or we all went out to dinner. I know my friends would fuck anything given the oppretunity. I never witnessed any sexual behavior nor did she flirt. At that time she was a nurse and at Christmas we went to a party at her work. there we ate and got somewhat drunk. her male coworker commented in her presents that she had amazing legs as she returned from the bathroom where she had removed her panties from under a short skirt. He ask her to dance and during the slow dance he had his hands all over her ass. she didn't mind and they both laughed. later he told her I could watch. Nothing further happened that night. Several years passed and she did work late with male coworkers which she was closed to but I do not know if she had ever fucked them. sex with her at that time was slowing down and she did not seemed interested she would never talk dirty nor would she use sexual aids. she is an amazing fuck but it was not often she wanted it. As my obession grew I again asked a male friend over we got drunk but that time she did not drink much. as we sat outside I called her over to where we were sitting and had her turn around so my friend could see her ass. she did without hesitation. I later told my friend in front of her that he would be staying the night and she would tuck him in. she later escorted him to a room and undress him without me asking. she did not go further and I was afraid to ask her. I went to bed and she stayed out in the livingroom but I do not know if they fucked. When she turned 60 we started having another of my male friends come over she and him got along great. I could tell her to take him and go get something and she would. she even went 3 hours way on a trip with him alone and also she would go out on my boat with him alone. me and my friend talked and he wanted to fuck her bad. Me and him would set things up so he was always around her he would touch her every chance he got and they aways hugged and kissed during greeting. she would not hesitation to walk him out at night alone and allow him to hold her tight as he kissed her neck. she never said no or moved he said she liked the attention he was giving her but neither he or I could ask her direct to fuck. I could tell she liked him. they would text and on occasion he was say things in a sexual manner and close by saying he wanted to see her she would always say OK. I then began to hint hard about wanting her to show him attention get close to him and share things with him. I asked her to wear tight legging with no panties around him and she did. as I inched closer to asking it seemed all that I was hinting was OK and she did not disagree. one evening as my friend walked her out they hugged close and he kissed on her neck I heard him tell her he loved her and she told him she loved him too. After hearing that I told my friend to step it up and text her something bold. he did and said he did not want to pretend anymore he wanted her bad and wanted to eat her pussy. she immediately called me and seem shocked and not sure what happened. I later followed up in a text to her about my obsessed fantasy of wanting her to have sex with him as it turned me on. I told her I loved her didn't want to disrespect her or devalue her. she later text me back saying we were all crazy. several days she was mad at me and did not talk. A couple of days ago my friend came over and she did not say a thing to him he was umcomfortable. we had to go out and she went with me she said what would have I done if she had taking my friend up on his offer for sex. I told her I was sorry for embarrassing her and that I was OK with it. I told her tell my friend when we got back she was OK with him and not mad at him. when we got back I saw her walk over and hung my friend close he kissed her neck and she was back acting as normal with him she could not stay away from him and talked with him about stuff going on around us. when he was about to leave he hugged her in front of me told her he loved her she told him she loved him and he left. I truly believe they want to fuck each other but how do I acommplish it do I leave it alone and let her make the move or do I only add supporting comments when she says something. he still wants to fuck her bad and she has not had sex with me in years. what do I do HELP
You’re trying too hard. She knows he wants it and there is obvious affection there so let it happen naturally without you constantly pushing her towards it. She’s a woman so she will think about this much smarter than a man. Our brains get deprived of blood when we have an erection! She will be thinking about things like will it ruin the friendship, will she fall in love and what will that do to your marriage, what if you change your mind after the event, is it just a hot fantasy you have, would you be able to handle it once they start etc etc. Just tell her you love her, she’s amazing and you will fine with whatever happens. With the pressure off, make sure you leave them alone for decent spells ie pop out to buy some wine and leave them for half an hour. It will happen if you give them enough space. And don’t demand all the details. Give her time to become comfortable telling you and always tell her you love her and she is very special.
Here's some points I gleaned from this story. She's 60 years of age. She got upset at the suggestion of having sex with the friend. She hasn't had sex with the OP for years. She loves the friend for the emotional connection they have This is a 25 year or so relationship but no mention of marriage Okay, here's the "HELP" but the OP isn't going to like it. Leave her alone. She doesn't want to fuck him, the OP, or any other person. Not anymore. Statistics show that half the women over the age of 60 stop having sex due to several reasons. That increases to 75% by age 70. Mostly because it hurts to have a penis invade their body. The vagina doesn't work as well as it used to. It isn't as flexible, lubricated, nor as thick as it was during child bearing years. Put together this becomes very painful for a number of women. Menopause changes her body and without medical support as in hormone replacement therapy she may not like to fuck anymore. Her age gave me a clue as to what's going on. Second clue is that she got mad over the suggestion she fuck the friend which shook her security. Next clue, she hasn't had sex with the OP for years, why do it with the friend? Stop and leave her alone. Let her have a loving emotional relationship with the friend but understand she doesn't want to fuck him. Hugs and kisses are fine. But she has reasons that she hasn't told and the suggestion puts her in an awkward position. That's why she got upset over the suggestion. Plus if she hasn't had sex with the OP for years it may be due to the same issues she got upset over. Until she can come forward with why she doesn't have sex with the OP, her lifelong mate, it is a dead subject and issues rise if it's brought up. So first, she has to have a libido. Then be able to enjoy sex without pain or other possible issues. Be comfortable with sex in the security of her mate, the OP. All this before she might consider branching out to other men, the close friend included. What surprises me is after 25 years with this woman the OP has no clue of her health or emotions. Maybe because they aren't married or as close as they think they are.
