If you find the right guy, you would be surprised what you can handle. Wife like bigger men, even though she seen most before we got married. She said her best lover took his time, and wanted her to enjoy it.
I am 8" and have 6" in girth. My wife and I were virgins when we married at 25. Never knew I was large until I measured and started reading up on it. Very thankful. However, I can't get a BJ since I am too thick. Would do it myself if I could.