It has recently been brought to my attention that I run Hot then go Cold- this is as it is with my feelings for men. I think I might be falling for him, so I completely back off, and wants things to really slow down, maybe even go backwards...... It is just where I am in my life. I am not sure if this will change or even how I would change it. I just guess I don't want the commitment , and give up control that comes with it..... anyone else struggle with this? Maybe it is also because I am 50???? Would love your thoughts, be kind
Commitment can be scary. But the feeling of having someone is great too. It is up to you to decide. I am not ready for a relationship right now either. But I have to say being a "romantic" is enjoyable for me. I don't know that I love the feeling of being in love. I just love having the butterflies and the feeling that someone special lights up the room when they enter. The excitement of hearing that special person's voice. Having someone to be the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I think of at night.
Reminds me of the song, "Im Not in Love" by 10cc I'm not in love, so don't forget it It's just a silly phase I'm going through And just because I call you up Don't get me wrong, don't think you've got it made
yep, you sound like a woman. of course, men do this too, but only the ones who have figured out that that's what women like.
see a counselor, talk to a friend, or however you do it, get your own head straight. sounds like you have some confusion and mixed feelings know what you want, and then you can make a plan to get there hope this all works out the right way!
Maybe you're moving too fast and that makes you want to move backwards. If you move slower, you're more likely to make decisions that you're sure of, when you're ready and you can keep moving forward, but if you have moved too fast and that makes you uncomfortable, you have every right to move backwards...that's just self-respect.
