I'm a bi bottom, love oral with both men and women, I have to say pussies vary as much or more than cocks in my experience, I have indelible mental pictures of every lady I've been with. They're all wonderful, the most striking looked like a butterfly. Oddly, I'm not as observant of cocks since when I see a guy fully dressed I just see a guy, I see a cock and I get horny and ready to do what I'm asked. So most. Cocks are very sexy just a few are not, It's been a long time but a remember the coloring was off on one dark with strong red blotches.
I don't know where you ever came up with the idea that pussies pretty much look the same. There are invariably as many different types and appearances of pussies as there are different types and appearances of cocks.I do agree with your assessment of cocks being an awesome looking "thing"!!!