Hoping for a First Time

I've been Fantasizing about touching, licking and maybe sucking a nice cut cock. Too scary tho. But we only live once.

 

Scary?

They dont bite

 

Why scary.?
I would consider it perfectly normal for someone in a gay relationship.

 

I am just wondering whether he is . Perhaps he could be Bi Curious ? Then of course it could be a bit daunting at first as he would be new to the idea.

 

A good point, I did not think of that.
If he goes through with it, he will go from Bi Curious to Bi, or even may convert altogether. LOL.

 

Thanks for the feedback. Yes.. I am struggling with this whole turn on. Have no experience with it. It's scary in all sorts of ways for me. The actual experience with another person, I may not know what the hell I'm doing is another thing, How I'll feel after, so Morally or psychologically. But I'm dying to try it. Plus I have a certain type of cock I seem to be attracted too. lol - What are the odds...

 

In my eyes your situation is no different than say a heterosexual guy having sex with a woman for the first time. I think you will be clumsy and I say that not in a detrimental way , You may even be overwhelmed. Seeing a mature woman naked was quite daunting but exciting at the same time and that did overwhelm me the first time .

I think what is a must for you is perhaps an experienced partner who could guide you . It may even be a good idea to have some no sex but naked sessions before hand . Naked Twister is a fun icebreaker . I think something like this will help to settle those nerves a little beforehand..

 

Go for it, you may like it. There's certainly nothing wrong with experimenting as long as nobody is hurt, either physically or emotionally.

You know, I spent 15 years in the car business and I don't recall anyone addressing me, "hey car salesman"!

But damn, you suck one little cock and you're labeled a cock-sucker for life.

 

That shouldn't be the case. There are those obviously small minded people who try to be judgemental and label people in a certain manner. They have no right in poking their noses into other peoples business when it shouldn't concern them. Those people are best left ignored .

 

WOW, I really do appreciate all of your thoughts and thoughtfulness, criticisms and opinions on my personal quest/confusion/dilemma, whatever this is. Your personal opinions and the time you put in just occupying your mind-space is really valued to me. So Thank you all!! But I think I need to do it. Find the person, try it and then go from there. Any opinions?

 

Keep away from the Negs ( negative people) and follow your heart .

 

Thanks Mysteron, I do plan too. But I think I'm on a mission to experience this. How do I make it happen.

 

Obviously you have got to find a partner . Its no different than trying to find a Heterosexual partner ie a woman . Its going to be harder to find as there are less around. Specialist dating websites may be a start.

 

I guess, after all this time, I'm ready to actually have the experience and either embrace it or move past it and get it out of my system or mindset. Does anyone know the best way to seek out and make this happen? in a positive way, of course. Don't want to do it unsafe-like and attract nut-jobs. But where do I post something like this these days?

 

Mysteron, We were writing at the same time. But what sites or places?

 

That I can't help you with as its a path that I wouldn't choose to follow . You will need to use your search engine and then perhaps seek reviews both negative and positive on your potential dating site .

 

Touch me, baby - Jim Morrison

 

I have an idea that would relieve you from any guilt from wanting to try it. If you're ticklish, let me tie you up and tickle you until you can't take it anymore. Then when you tell me you'll do "anything if I'll just stop tickling you, I tell you that if you suck me off, I'll stop! And if you do, then I will stroke you off too. So we both get off!

 

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