How many have ever made a homemade sex video with someone and/or regretted it later? It always sounds like a great idea at the time but the way relationships come and go you have to consider it will be copied at least once and when that relationship no longer exists that person may show it to a host of people. And the other risk is it may fall into the wrong hands and minors in the household may end up watching it .
We had hours of video's with our stud, so bloody erotic and I am sure I must have viewed them until they were nearly warn out. However my wife was always worried about our daughters finding them and seeing what we used to get up to, so she burned the lot, a few years ago and this left me fuming. Such a pity after all that trouble to make the video's and now I miss the ability to carry on watching and enjoying the really physical sex sessions we had. It seems as if she enjoyed these sessions whilst participating, but that did not extend to watching the video like it did for me.
You can always write the file to an encrypted drive or encrypt the file. And you can upload it to an encrypted cloud server like protonmail. And you can do all three hence no one can see anything without the passwords. Note I would not put an unencrypted video into the cloud.
Neither would I. I would just make sure I had a copy in a safe place for future reference and if the other video star wanted a copy so be it. I wouldn't share it with anyone without her consent unless we'd been broken up for a long time. Then maybe it would be time to bust it out and watch it alone or with a couple good friends who knew her. But it was usually the fear that a copy would end up either in one of my buddy's hands or her daughter's hands and they'd see what a ho she was.
You have to admit they're an unmistakable video record of the people in their most vulnerable state and at their prime time in life and when they're not ashamed of seeing themselves on film. I know some couples who used their own homemade videos to help improve their own sex life as they were able to see themselves in action and critique themselves.
I've never worried about that but I can see how it might worry other people. A few years back I was asked to do a few videos of a woman masturbating. Hands, toys, outside. All kinds of things. She had me do it on her phone so I never got a copy. She said they were for her boyfriend who was away for a few months but she told me later that she really enjoyed being filmed and watched. But she does worry about them getting out from whoever she sent them to.
