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Well, I'm glad that you are happy. I'm not sure why people come into your threads just to be cruel and attack you.

The lawyer dude seems intriguing. Although, being a lawyer, doesn't he know that it can look bad if someone going through divorce is found to be having outside relationships? Shitty, I know, but true. It can be used against you.

 

Probably so, and nothing I'd deny. Which is exactly why I'm a recipient of YOUR crap, and I deal with it.

 

Thanks, well after all I tried to say it all in one sentence but after that I was answering your reactions :2thumbsup:

 

Yeah who knows.

True. We've talked about that. In CA, there is no fault divorce. Although, if we resorted to lawyers, it could get ugly. I highly doubt it'll come to that.

 

You're obsessed.

 

You would love that

 

I can't control you. Just stating the obvious.

 

Seems like an interpretation to me. I'm just reacting.

 

Actions make it quite clear. Indifference is how it would look if you weren't.

 

Thanks. This isn't a first fling though. As you know I've spent the last few years "dating" and getting to know other men. This guy and I crossed paths, and it's going very well. I think I'll take the risk anyway. It would be a travesty to waste all this fun in fear of being hurt.

I'm in San Diego. Our area of downtown by the bay is referred to as the Embarcadero. Where are you?

 

absolutely not true....you have spilled your guts here many times over to the point where we all know you to a degree

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so the following must also be true

this guy is NOT great in at least some ways......

sounds like just another shark lawyer banging a vulnerable divorcee....might be cliché but its cliché for a reason

 

So any (re)action people give to your posts is clearly because of obsession. Or just the ones that you find unpleasant?

 

The saddest thing about this post and your apparent attitude concerning this guy (I thought the last one was "the real deal"?) is that once again you are putting forth this mans credentials as if it in some way makes you look better.
Why do you always go to such lengths and details when explaining your most recent fling, yet don't give yourself as much airtime or credit when sharing about your life?

As I have said to you from the very beginning, you will NEVER be happy until you stop relying on your relationships with men for self validation and self worth.

Think about it... in your time here you have gone up and down on an emotional roller coaster all because of your relationships with men.

Get off the damn coaster for a while and focus on YOURSELF and not as you are relative to some man.

The secret is to have "super happy time" all on your own and not have it dependent on someone else. :2thumbsup:

 

I've shared my sex life, with usually quick responses that shred me about it. I'm doing about 100 other things in my life too that validate you know NOTHING.

Yes, he's banging, and it's great. But he wants a relationship. There's no doubt about that.

 

Nah, just you.

 

I guess because I don't take this forum all that seriously. When things are good, I'm playful. With the last guy you refer to, I was in a state of crisis over my own emotions. Writing it out is somewhat therapeutic. I thought I was more important to him then I ever really was. That was a hard thing to stomach.

People need people. We all seek companionship. I happen to dive in, and enjoy the ride. It's hurts like crazy when I'm wrong. And it really does help to have these alliances as I go through a very difficult process at home.

 

It's a wise warning and reminder.

 

Not Telluride now silly! At a point in his life, he did that. Currently he works at home and travels often for a variety of reasons....he most important is that he finds bigger waves to surf then our San Diego shores.