I was 13 4 years ago, and no fucking way was I ready to have sex! That's ridiculous... kids are forgetting how to be kids!
Stop bleeting about human nature and get some real problems. Sexual maturity happens at different times for different people. Some will have sex when they're biologically but not emotionally all that ready, while others will be ready to experiment as a young teen. That's all been happening since humans have existed and it's really nothing to get in such a tangle about. If it's a grown adult taking advantage of a child that's an entirely different story, but kids messing about together? Up to them. Keep them informed about contraception and stop putting them on some big guilt trip for no reason other than your own overactive sensibilities.
Been keeping up with the Warren Jeff's trial. How about his 5 year old nephew or his 8 year old niece. Did they have the right to decide? And what 12 year old realizes the ramifications of sex - emotional, physical, spiritual? Do you have any idea of what Pandora's box can be opened by condoning sex at the age of 10-13? What kind of maturity and understanding of consequences can a person of that age have? Sexual maturity at 12 is rare if not unheard of - and to say otherwise opens up pedophilia at it's blackest level.
Well I can definitely relate, I am bi and lost it to a guy at 13, and I am the one who initiated it. I had been hanging on third base since I turned 12 and had already been experimenting with girls (69 and fingering but I don't count that as my first). It has been a great life for me personally and I wouldn't change it but it comes down to the individual, not everyone is ready like I feel I was. I basically woke up one morning at 12 with a woman's body and the drive to use it, much to the delight of the guys at school. I have been a sexual being since I was a young girl, I had been masturbating regularly for a several years and already knew I liked to be spanked and was sexually aroused by it. I guess my wiring just kicked in early, I was the only girl in my class with D cups a tiny waist and a round ass, so I never lacked for attention and I have made good use of it. IMHO, 13 is too young for a lot of people, but not everyone.
Its disgusting really but infectious im 19 and a virgin (which is insanely tough) but all my friends were not virgins by the 9th.. Seriously they had sex so casually that at times i felt like the wierdo being a virgin in the 10th grade.. and it was worse in 12th cause freshmen wuld tell me crazy things like they'd done anal or swallow.. Thats like adult sex not innocent sex lol
My cats were trying to have sex when they were less than a year old I guess I was a bad example for them. They would see me and Her Highness going at it in the bedroom, and I guess it was too much for them. My cats are both males, so I guess that makes them gay. I am wondering though, if there are no available females and you decide to hump a male, are you still gay? My wife and I didn't have sex till we were married, I was 22 and she was 19. So I guess we were ancient virgins. Funny thing is though, now I am 43 and I'm glad I waited. At the time it kind of felt like I wished we were doing something, but in the big scheme of things a couple years of looking forward to being intimate with a beautiful woman just makes it better when it's legal, with a license to fight and everything. Plus no STDs, no worries about someone getting pregnant, no worries about her dad running after me with a shot gun etc., etc. In my opinion whenever you have sex with someone an emotional bond is formed (there may be an exception to that if you are drunk or stoned) and I kind of wonder what happens to these kid's hearts when they fuck somebody and then the next day run off with someone else.
I'm not so sure it's happening so much more now then it was when I was that age (35 now so..22 years ago)..but it does seem to be more "out in the open" I didn't have sex until I was 17...and I'm overweight..even as a kid..and when I was 13 I had a chance and the ONLY reason I didn't was because I chickened out. I just think it's more out in the open. Same as homosexuality is now compared to a long time ago. Either way it was a gradual increase..we didn't all go to sleep one day with our innocence at 13 and wake up the next sex-crazed and having orgies.
I started messing around with other kids when I was about 8 or 9 years olds.. it was all innocent fun, experimenting.. and this was back in the 70s. Its nothing new really.
Yeah, when I was 13 I was so god damned horny I would have had sex in an instant if I was given the opportunity.. If you're a guy and you're honest with yourself I don't think you'll see it any differently
I experimented with my cousin when I was 12 and she was 11 - not very successfully - I wasn't sure exactly where to put it. First real sex was when I was 13 with my gf - she was 12. It was her idea. We'd not done much more than kiss before.