Me and my husband got together when we were young 17 in fact and have been together 15 years with 2 kids and ups and downs along the way. A few years ago our sex life went stale and was just about non existent with work and kids. I got some advice off the forums and off a friend and realised I had to try spice things up. I knew when we were having sex he always fantasised about sharing me with another guy, this turned me on massively but always thought in reality it could ruin our relationship more. On a rare occasion that we got time to ourselves I brought the subject up over dinner, we discussed how this could happen, when, where and with who. I laid a few rules of what I would like if this was going to happen and stated that we both needed to be comfortable. We both got really turned on and cut our meal short and ended up having a lovely intimate night at home. Now by no means are we swingers and do not move in those circles but we joined a site to look for what we wanted. We didn’t get much free time so this would be a treat now and again. The first time was amazing and over the last few years we have done it a fair few times. It’s brought us closer together and strangely our trust has built massively. I’m not saying this is for everyone but it worked for us. Anyway we are looking to book our first holiday away without the kids. We both want it to be fun and the Caribbean or somewhere similar. Our fantasy is to be laid sunbathing and to meet a big black guy, I’m sure you can imagine the rest. So where’s the best place do you think this could happen? Help appreciated x
A clothing optional beach island is probably a good place to start. Jamaica has them and you might consider it. Look into a resort that caters to those who desire vacations of a sexual nature. Beware of entering into a foreign country and their laws. Stay away from the Eastern Caribbean islands also known as the Leeward islands. They are pretty religious and clothing optional beaches are few and far between. There are other locations in the Caribbean that also cater to your interests. Research through the internet and look at other forums such as Fetlife where you may have better success getting information.
Well, humans aren’t fetish dispensers, so you likely will need to tap into the swinger community. Are there adult only clubs in your area? Or public 18+ hot tubs?
we have been to many destinations in the Caribbean. cayo Largo, Cuba has a few resorts that has clothing optional beaches. my wife has been topless in other destinations but here at Cayo Largo we were guided by the beach staff to the clothing optional section. we didnt know that at the time, when we set up in the loungers we noticed others were nude. when in Rome was my wifes thoughts, peeling off her bathing suit. encouraging me to follow. seeing all the others were your typicle nudists, not many stared, but it did stir something in us being nude infront of so many others. at dinner one evening we met a couple a few years older than us. they late fifties. the wife was wheel chair bound. drinks and chats turns to being more open chats. husband wanted to try the clothing optional section of the beach but didnt want to go alone, asked if we had gone. my wife told him today had been the first time we ever have gone to one. he said he has never done it before either.we dont know if the couple were swingers or that they have an agreement cause she is wheel chair bound. but the husband turned to his wife asking if its ok he go to the beach with us, him turning back toward me and my wife, saying as long as thats ok with you guys. my wife and i were in the same boat as the story poster here. first few times on vacation now our kids have grown up. loved my wife to show off topless on beach. hqave discussed scenarios in our love making pillow talk fantasy chats... never thought any of them would ever happen. but we were open if the opportunity arisen. so this looked like a great opportunity. the advantages were that the other guy is older, whitish hair (wifes turn on) bigger in build than me (wife turn on) very polite and curtious (huge wife turn on) my turn on was "well! hes another male whos could get to see my wife fully nude" he wife had no problem answering his request, she told him by all means he could go if we didnt mind. we agreed to meet for breakfast the next day, set his wife up in a comfortable shaded area as we go to the beach. his wife said she was getting tired, so they left back to their room. my wife and i had talked about him joining us on the beach the next day. i was surprised how comfortable my wife with the idea. she did say it would be rather exciting, plus would give us someone to talk to instead of just us. next thing we know he came back to join us at the bar. told us his wife has turned in for the night. obvious the topic of the chat was the beach the next day. he asked if it gets busy? is everyone naked? more men than women? etc list went on lol we answered as to what we had seen that day. he asked do all the people shave down below? i told him im not fully, just trimmed, wife is fully shaved. then he gave her a "mmmm" i laughed telling him i liked that too, you get to see more of her lol he did ask, seeing that was our first time ever on nude beach how did i feel about other men seeing my wife. i told him i actually enjoyed it. i was also surprised how comfortable she was with it. lying on her back, everything in full view, even when others walked past. me on the other hand, well lets say i got a bad sunburn on my back. he laughed knowing what i meant, telling me he will probably have the same problem. so to answer your question Kelly23, this was totaly unplanned and unexpected. never had we thought something like this would ever happen.
