I wear secondhand flowery shirts made in india, have my hair parted to the side and I am always very animated in my movements. Everything is physical comedy for me. I don't walk into a room, I pop my head in horizontally and speak for a moment before my body follows. This seems to charm some women, unfortunately its when I force myself to get into a conversation with them that I turn into water My brain just stops working. Its almost physiological in nature.
Those two statements seem to contradict one another. I found out that initiation doesn't always have to bear upon one person. It can be done jointly. Bearing full responsibility for initiation always got me in trouble; even when I was "successful." That's not to say that one-sided initiation can't work for others.
Talking to women is easy, the approach is the hard part. So I have to asking is it the conversation that's hard for you Face Eater or the initiation to the conversation?!
Its the talking that's hard for me. I find initiation easy. When the initiation is reciprocal, or if she initiates, I am fine, but when I ride in on a horse, my insides turn to nothing.
That sounds adorable. I would probably recognize that a guy was having trouble in the conversation and just take it slowly with him, but I would not lose interest because of that.
Thats the answer I was looking for! I know that people have hearts. Seriously, I have all the time in the world for somebody who falters in conversation when they're around me. Its so flattering, and genuine too.
We don't say hitting on in England.I flirt all the time with all sorts of women- even ones I dont remotely fancy.Once in a while they misunderstand , + get ultra upset.( the net....) Which is a shame. Platonic , romantic , fun ,relationship , casual , never-in-a-million years.I've probably flirted with all categories.
Yeah pull means actually getting or trying to get. Is hitting on flirting , or trying to pull...? ( scratches head)
if a man said that to me i would think he was a creep lol.. . . jus be yourself, be confident but not cocky .. . just chat a normal conversation, and throw in some cheesey lines durin it . .
approaching people can be really hard, but someone has to do it. my problem in the past has been men who are turned off by women doing the approach EVER. like if you just wanna meet someone at a party and have a fun conversation, like if you're not even interested in them. people have some bizarre ideas about what's appropriate behavior for women at a party or bar. but it's not quite so bad, because i have a forceful personality anyway, and if i freak them out just by striking up a conversation, then i lost nothing.
lol! I know me too... I was just playing. But still... for that split second she'll wonder if it's true. HAHAHA!
i bet some women do find it cute, however why do u feel like u even need to "try" just be yourself, women dig that quality also.