hitting is bullshit

best way to handle that is to restrain her hold her down till she get herself under control

 

Yeah I agree thats the best way. Though I don't see myself ever getting in such a situation, my brother was in a situation like that and he got pretty banged up with scratches, bruises, and a bent tooth and all he did was try to cover up to defend himself.

 

yes a mad woman can tear you up really good if she wants to.. i had a cousin who look like he had been beat up by mike tyson and it was his woman lolol she really gave him a good one

 

i dunno just dont think I could pull myself to raise a hand at a female.... against everything my momma taught me

 

same here schwahead my mom always told me to treat a woman like a lady even if she was'nt one it just go against ever thing i have been taugh so i could'nt hit a woman

 

So you're telling me that if a woman is so deranged as to go apeshit on a man, she should just be restrained? To the physical detriment of the man?

What are women, infants? "I can't hurt the poor little woman! I can't possibly lay a finger on the PSYCHOPATH hitting me, because she's a fragile little lady." She made a choice to get violent. If you're adult enough to attack someone, then you're adult enough to get hit back for it.

If women just get held down, no matter WHAT they're doing to injure another living, breathing human, it smacks of "Well, women can't handle the consequences, so just hold her. Just pet the crazy lady until she gets herself calmed." She's not a mindless animal, she's a human who should have the sense not to freak out like that. A hit is coming to her, double standards be damned. Maybe not a jaw-breaking, coma-inducing hit, but a hit nonetheless.
My boyfriend actually got truly HIT by an ex-girlfriend, and eventually, he reached out and popped her a good one. It actually resulted in them both calming down, because she realized that she couldn't just go completely insane and not have him react. Because he feels that women are his equals and not little dolls that have to be pampered. He didn't seriously hurt her, but it makes sense to me. He's not a violent man generally, but come on, that was warranted. I've indirectly heard her says things like, "Yeah, I was a little shit. He didn't really hurt me, just enough to let me know he wasn't a doormat."

 

well maybe id smack you around a couple time for good measure

 

something deep down inside me say it ain't right to hit a woman.. yes i look at a woman as a equal but i cannot help to feel the way i do about the subject... no double standard here cause it not right for a woman to hit a man either but we all can't agree if we did then this post would be very boring it nice to see how people think on a subject

 

just tell her youd smack her around a bit to make her happy

 

for reals? I am 5'8 and I still think I am incapable of physically harming my fiancee. The strength difference between men and women is pretty big.
I was in one abusive relationshipa long time ago and the guy was only about 20 pounds lighter than me at the time and a bit fem and there was still no way I could defend myself.
The only time I think it is okay to slap a chick in the face is if she is going to hurt herself. I was living with my boyfriend at the time and had just had a really unbelivabley bad night and was freaking out saying I wanted to kill myself (the only time I have ever said that) and he slapped me, not hard but enough to make me wake the fuck up and get out of my own head.
If someone slapped me on the face for any other reason I would be out of the door so fast. It bothers me when parents slap their kids on their face as well. That is flat out abuse.

 

I know what you mean. A friend (now ex-friend) tried to force himself on me one day. He was sooo skinny and scrawny I never thought he could over take me, but he did. He didn't rape me, but he took his slimy tounge and ran it down my stomache while he held me down, struggling, trying to scream. Now I'm a tall girl with the body of an athelete, and I figured myself strong, and he was just a skinny scawny guy shorter than me, but he still could of had his way with me no matter how hard I fought.

So men are generally physically stronger than women, and thats why it's worse for a man to force violence on a woman, than vise verses. That does not give the woman an excuse to act out in violence, unless it is self defense, but it is typically less serve if it is delievered, unless she has a gun or something, in which case the man would be entitled to defend himself in any manner fesible, for self perserverance.