hitting is bullshit

Well, don't blame us for your lack of understanding. Some men do have brain farts..while others have shit for brains. lol

 

I wish there was still a heart. and those hearts could hear each others always. but you hear me now.

 

It's wrong for either party to hit the other.
But some men have morals and would never hit a girl.
I mean if ur a guy and a girl tries to beat on u ,u can report her to t he cops and she'll be charged just as any man would be.
And...alot of people see it as bad for a guy to hit a woman because women are deemed as weaker than men and u shouldnt beat up on someone weaker than u are.
But they fact still remains that it is wrong on both sides no matter who hits who.
And women wanted equality so now they've got it.
Same charges and penalties apply to both men and women for domestic violence....and whatever other abuse.I think thats fair..
If you cant take being hit by a man dont hit him.
But if he hits u first just out of angry then thats just wrong and he should be locked up...same for the women.

 

I'm sorry, but this is obviously coming from someone who has never seen a real beating. Let me think about the worst beating I've heard of happening to people I know - six guys knocking Justing unconcious, then dragging him next to a bleacher and jumping off the top onto his head. More than once.

Name some kind of emotional abuse with worse repercussions than that.

 

I dont hit women because its wrong. That should go both ways. Although if some bitch hits me hard givin the situation of course. I will smack her right back. Just because you have something on your chest along with a little sumtin sumtin down south does not make you dodge the bullet.

 

lol ahha i totally agree
If u cant take being hit then dont hit anyone
girl or guy.

 

it's totally different. If I get violent a guy would have the physical ability to restrain me. If a guy hit me I would not be able to defend myself. It's a physical difference. Regardless it's wrong for women to hit men

 

That's really fucked up and shows immaturity and a lack of self-control on your part.

 

men are born stronger.

 

Hitting other than in self defence in my mind is unacceptable. A woman knocking a man out is not acceptable but to lesser degrees it is. You have to remember that unlike men, women aren't built to fight or be strong, their bodies are much more suited to bearing children. In this new (and in my opinion fairer society) with many more equal gender rights, it is important to remember that just because the sexes should be treated the same for things they can do equally, they should also be protected where they are at a disadvantage.

Remember that hitting someone bad enough is assault in the eyes of the law and therefore covered by sanctions and to an extent self-defence (with reasonable force) without regard to the gender.

 

Are you really only 15? If so you are very enlightened.

 

Except the law doesn't work on this principle - ie: statutory rape laws. A 30-year old man fucking a 13 year old girl gets penalized much more harshley than a 30 year old woman having sex with a 13 year old boy. In Canada at least. Different laws.

 

It's exactly the same in Great Britain, though I think the statutory rape age is a year younger. You're totally right, that is not fair at all, but I expect that occurrences of are likely to be lower though, not that make it right.

 

And the double standards come out of the woodwork. I know so many teenage guys who detest feminism because it tends to argue that women and men aren't equal at all, but rather that women should win every time - they're just better. They're the "sacred sex" (bullshit). They get mad that if a male teacher has sex with a willing female student, it's somehow always a hideous power-rape, but if a female teacher has sex with a male student - even an unwilling one - it's "just how it is."
Same goes for hitting. I've seen couples where the girl is VERY evenly matched to her guy. Lacrosse players from school come to mind. They can PUNCH, people. Not weak little-girl slaps. There's this myth that no girl can stand up to any guy in a fight, but truth be told, I'm absolutely sure that there are cases out there where men are scared shitless of their abusive girlfriends or wives, but don't tell anyone because it's embarassing to them. I'm pretty sure that, push come to shove, I could do some serious damage to my boyfriend. I'm small, but he's not exactly Godzilla either.
Equality means just that - it means that if you hit someone, out of frustration or temper and not self-defense, you are doing something reprehensible, regardless of gender. The old-fashioned "don't hit a woman, even if she's beating you over the head with a broken bottle" is absolute crap, in my opinion. Defense is a two-way street.
Personally, if I were stupid and uncontrolled enough to hit my boyfriend (slap, smack, or even, yes, punch, because believe it or not, women can do that), I'd fully expect him to give me a pop back. He's a human being too, and if I've violated the contract of love by instigating violence on him, then he's free to break it too.
All of this is just my opinion, of course, but I can't help but feel strongly on it. Women shouldn't get a free ride for things like hitting.

 

i agree. it`s best a man doesn`t hit a woman because a lot of the time they will impact more damage. basically yes it is silly and annoying how people are about such things.

 

if some guy grabs my ass, I have the right to slap him. he touched me in an unappropriate fashion, and karma is just karma, I wouldn't feel too bad returning the favor.

but I would never go and just hit a man. I have smacked my boyfriend for being a dick, but he doesn't cry about it, he laughs. b/c face it, he is alot stronger than me.

 

I could never have any respect for any woman who hits a man because she doesn't like something he said or did or whatever.

Fact of the matter is, women know they can hit a man and he's not going to hit her back. We know we're bigger and we're raised to never hit a woman. We respect women enough not to hit, yet women don't have reciprocal respect for this restraint.

to me, it the equivalent of punching somebody who's got his hands tied behind his back.

 

a hit like that^ from a woman is likely to cause far less damage. so do you still think that`s ok? i mean you don`t think punching is.

 

seriously my girlfriend is a kickboxer and she often kicks and hits me, I think it's so damn funny... because well she hits like a girl... Men stop whining, we are the stronger sex... Stop being bitches...

Besides it all depends on how you hit...

Of course it is percieved differently, the stronger one stops the fight and the smarter one stop the arguement, that's just the way it is, that's why men doesn't hit women, because from nature we are the stronger ones...

 

and why men won't argue b/c we're the smarter ones