I'm not a spring chicken, married to a wonderful woman, and all of the kids are raised and on their own. I feel stupid because I'm in my early 50s and questioning/exploring my sexuality which seems ridiculous but here I am. Nobody on earth has a clue that I have fantasies about other men and trans women. It's kind of lonely because I know my wife wouldn't understand these desires so I know these fantasies will always be just that.
Interest in men who want to be perceived as women is a typical route to homosexual interactions (→ Straight Plus versus Bisexual). Spouses should not stand in each other’s way, but support each other in their development, which includes the discovery of sexual possibilities. Don’t underestimate your wife’s ability to learn, especially if she can benefit from it. Weinberg, M. S., & Williams, C. J. (2010). Men Sexually Interested in Transwomen (MSTW): Gendered Embodiment and the Construction of Sexual Desire. Journal of Sex Research, 47(4), 374–383. DOI: 10.1080/00224490903050568 Full Text
