Hi people I'm inanutshell glad to join you guys. I have a dilemma please help me out. Sorry for it being so long.My fiancé disclosed to me that he misses how is old sex life was and that he feels like he has hinted to me that he wants to be more adventurous plenty of times and I haven't got the point when we discussed it. Basically he said that he is to the point now where he will master ate and enjoy watching the porn because that is the sex life that he is missing. He said that sex with me lacks passion and pretty much just getting a nut but it's like okay that's done. I want to add spice and be adventurous but since he has had to tell me he will feel as though that is the only reason why I am doing it. That he doesn't want me to change it because he had to let me know but he felt good to just be honest with me about him missing that feeling. How do I get that spark back and do all those things and be more freaky to where he enjoys sex and does not feel like sigh she is just doing this differently because I told her. I really want to please him.
Just take it slow and be genuine... let him know new and "freaky" things are what you want to do too. Welcome to HF!
