Hello there, We're a new couple here and we're in look for some advice. We've been in relation for about 7years now and we just decided we need to fix our sex life. We've decided to get married and everything is ok between us except the sex. We want to make that work also...hope we're in the right place. Our sex life began about more than 1year of relationship. After the long wait the sex was not exactly good. For me (Molly) in the begining sex was paintful every time and later i found out that the only thing that helped was having an orgasm self-made stimulating my clit. Everything was "ok" when wet. I say ok because I never hit an orgasm without stimulating the clitoris. This continues even today after 7 years of relationship but I understand it's kinda normal and most women don't get the real vaginal orgasm. And here we are after 7 years and the problem has changed a little now. I'm having 2-3 orgasm sometimes during sex but I get them as I'm used to rubbing my clit during penetration. The problem is...my vagina start hurting after the orgasm and I don't like to be penetrated anymore. I keep going to make Mike cum but it doesn't feel as good as before I had my orgasm. Basically we're not enjoying sex as much as we would like....as much as I would like(Mike)....because I like it often. For me it would normal and I would like to have it around 2-3 times a week at least. The problem with Molly not enjoying it as much as she should, us being busy and tired with our jobs results in making love around 3-4times a month and sometimes this long waits get very fustrating. We've decided to try and change this because the problem is real and the lack of sexual connection affects our relation a lot. We want to talk about anything here so feel free to join the thread. We're waiting for advices, questions or private conversations with other couples that have, had this kind of problems. Also we're here to chat and make some friends...thnx.
