Hey! Old retired guys.

Did you aways have bi desires, or have they developed since you have gotten older and had fewer options.
I never thought about it and was semi homophobic. When I got older, in my 60s, my entire attitude changed about a lot of things. I woke up and left my hangups behind me. Im happy about growing and learning .
Blowjobs are fun and easy.

 

I must admit that now that I am in my 60s I am more acceptant of my desires. I did not discover transgender women until about 15 years ago and I spent the following decade getting over the idea that I might be gay. Finally I decided if I liked a woman with a cock, who cares if I am gay or bi or straight.

Now I freely act on my desires with my girlfriend and I love being her bottom. I wish I had been in this place 15 years ago but life is a journey.

 

I discovered my bisexuality in my late 30's and am now in my mid 70's. Never had bi desires until getting sucked off at a glory hole. A cock presented itself through a glory hole to be sucked. I thought I'd give it a try and liked it. Been sucking cocks ever since.

 

Though I participated in things like circle jerks and minor touching when in my youth, I never thought much about sex with another guy after I married. Then in my 60s I too started to develop curiosities and a couple years ago started engaging in things with someone I know. He also felt the urge developed in his 60s.

 

I’m 59 and that curiosity is building for sure.

 

Mid 70's here. I'm past curiosity. I want cocks!

 

I you are that curious now, it will probably just grow on you. Be careful in your doings, but you might as well try and see if it is your thing after all. But I will warn you now, once you take that first cock in your mouth and sucking it and have fun with it, you will be hooked and want to have that feeling a lot more.

 

But I will warn you now, once you take that first cock in your mouth and sucking it and have fun with it, you will be hooked and want to have that feeling a lot more.[/QUOTE]
I found too that to be true

 

It is true, once you open that gate its one you wont want to close. I had a curiosity in my 40’s but never acted on it for a very long time. Once I did it opened a Pandora’s box that has been hard to close. I find myself searching for a fwb.

 

Once I acted on my curiosities in my early 30's I was totally hooked on sucking cock and been doing so avidly and will be 58 this year. The past 10 years I've had a bud and we suck each other off 2-3 times a week. Everyone is correct, once you suck your first cock you'll be craving it all the time.

 

When I was a kid I would blow an older guy once or twice a week for money. I never thought anything about it. It felt very natural to me but something told me to keep it a secret. So I did. I did that from about 13 to 16 years old. At 15 I had my first sex with a girl. The sex with the guy would allow me to pay for dates with my girl and buy rubbers.

When I was in my 30's There were a few women who actually enjoyed a double headed dildo. One end in me and one in her. There were several who I did this with. Now that I am retired with a bi girl who knows my past and my proclivities she sometimes spontainously welcomes me home with a strap on under her clothes and says get on your knees and blow me kid. It is a squirting dildo. As I suck the dildo she rubs her clit and when she cums she squeezes the plunger.

After that she very willingly butt fucks me with the dildo and she cums again. But in the end I always cum in her. Yes I miss sucking a cock and I often fantacise about it while in sex with my girl. When I can't seem to cum she says think about sucking a cock and all that cum shooting into your mouth. My feelings at that time go deeper into her because she knows me so well. Its like we can see thru each other we know each other so well, without question.

She is truly a treasure to me. She understands men it seems more than other women I have been with because, I believe, she was a Vegas call girl in her 20's and the guys would tell her stories about how their wives didn't understand what they needed in the sex area. So she would perform with them what they wished their wives would do.

She just seems to understand what I need. She is bi and I know other women are interested in her. I often have suggested to her that I would go camping for a weekend and return with no questions asked. She would thank me and say, "if I had an affair with a woman it might mean the end of what we have because with a girl I feel emotions I can never feel with you."

Our minds are complicated but to understand each other and act on that understanding freely is truly a gift we are greatful for.

 

Later in life my priorities and attitudes changed and so did my hangups as well.

 

If someone told me that there were emotions they could never feel with me, I could not continue with them. But that’s just me.

 

That's the usual answer I hear but after 23 years of experiencing each other I would not have it any other way. I have had several of the traditional love relationships and they all turned into disasters. This is as close to perfect as I have ever had.

 

If it works for you and it is as good as it gets, then that’s all that matters.

 

I’ve only been sucked by older guys. Seems to be a trend.

 

I was from a rural community where sex categories like homo or hetero were foreign to me. When I began sucking a guy's dick I never categorized it. It was just a natural thing to do. Felt good for both of us and that's what life is all about, isn't it?

 

Too bad you moved.

 

It is. I haven't had any luck up here Covid hasn’t helped. So I’m in a bit of a dry spell.

 

first girl at 18, first guy. ( black big cocked west african) at 19.
Complete stranger...went n spent the weekend with him n lost my anal virginity.

Hundreds of guys n scores of women later......stick to bottoming now. ..so gorgeous receiving......and probably on the gay end of the bi-scale.

Simon