hey girls

is it okay for guys so like anal play without being gay, ladies ur opnions are much apprecaited, bit depressed at the moment

 

of course it's okay, a lot depends on the individual of course but it's cool with me

 

nothing wrong with it at all, in my opinion.

 

I don't see how that would make you gay unless you enjoyed anal play with another guy.

 

my boyfriends in the past and I have dabbled in anal sex -- and we loved it.
clearly, none of them were homosexuals.

 

i mean anal play on ur boyfriends tho, like fingers, dildos etc

 

either way, it doesn't mean you're gay.

 

like experiementing with a same sex friend but not actually feeling like you want a relationship with that person? happens the world over. it's safe, convenient and secret.

basically, being gay means a whole slew of sliding scale things. if you don't feel like pursuing relatinoships with men, don't prefer men to women sexually, etc, then you would be at most bi. either way, nothing to feel guilty over.


but if you're referring to women performing anal acts on their men, that's not gay, either.

 

I'd say that would make you atleast a bit bi, but whatever it doesn't matter.

 

I think answers in a place called hip forums might be a bit biased towards saying it's fine vs the general public.

But no, it's not gay, when you find something about a man sexy or attractive, then those thoughts will be a little gay.

 

My sentiments exactly.