Okay i've been wanting to ask this for a long time. It seems many girls who identify as femmes seem to like femmes more than butches or butch-like girls. I myself might be called butch, i've seen girls express that most butches are unfortunate looking, have no style, and aren't well groomed... This upsets me a little. I take care of myself, i make sure i'm always dressed well, and most guys are jealous of my hair. I'm simply more comfortable wearing a shirt and tie rather than a dress. Where's the sexy ladies that appreciate a charming sharp looking girl?