Heteros you've seduced/molested/tricked into sexying, and how you did it:

I'm not sure getting someone drunk is a good idea. However, a light buzz could be helpful. Alcohol has a way of diminishing one's inhibitions, and could make one more receiptive to a proposition. Still, I think being direct is the best approach. I just don't think having my way with someone drunk enough to be submissive would be all that much fun. I would want them sober enough to enjoy, and remember the experience. That would give a better chance for more fun in the future. Once someone agrees to have there dick sucked, there a good chance they will be up for it again. Straight or not, must guys enjoy getting there rocks off. And, if you don't kiss and tell, they'll be back for more. The few experiances I have had, after the first time, any time the opportunity came by we would take advantage of it. In fact, my friend(s) would look for the opportunity for us to be alone together. <(^o^)>

 

Nope. I have neither molested nor tricked anyone into anything. That's a total 'no go' in my books.

Yup. I have seduced a few guys claiming to be straight. I have never attached any importance to such claims. I like to look into the deeds at hand and I strongly believe that the actions do speak much louder than words.

Frankly, with all the hot and willing gay guys going around, I rarely focus on trying to seduce a guy, who claims to be manifestly straight. Too much ado about nothing, as they say.

Yet, every hot guy above the legal age is a fair game in my books, too. I put out my feelers, if I am interested in him and, if the response is positive, I go for it.

There are two important points here: a) Am I interested in this guy? and b) Is he interested in me? And nothing else. There are loads of openly gay men I am totally disinterested in, and I am sure that there are loads of gay dudes out there, who would not want to do anything with me, no matter what. We all know that someone being gay does not automatically translate into his willingness to sleep around with any other gay man just because this other dude sports a rainbow flag. Life is far more complex than that.

When it comes to the manifestly straight guys I want to put on my scoreboard, the following matters:

1) Being openly gay usually does not help. If they want to experiment, they'll rather do it with another straight acting dude, who is not openly gay. The notion that you are protecting your privacy and that their privacy will be thus also protected is paramount.

2) They must be assured that you are never going to kiss and tell and that what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, no matter what.

3) It is an urban myth that a straight dude wants to have his dick sucked no matter by whom. Hot guys are rarely desperate. On the contrary, if they are ready to experiment with another guy, they are more likely to take the sucker's role, because that's what they have not done so far, and that's what they cannot get from their female partners.

4) They must be assured that you are not going to be clinging on them afterwards and that you are not going to be interfering with their regular lives. A dude may want to have sex but he is most likely not looking for a ball and a chain or someone, who'll be texting him 10 times a day. It is a good plan to make sure that he understands that you are neither desperate in any way and that you have a life, too.

5) Last but not least: they do not want to start talking the BIG GAY thing out there. They are not all stupid. They know that sucking other guy's dick is GAY. They only do not want to be told that. It is important to keep in mind that there is a number of hot dudes out there, who are more than happy to mess around with other guys even on a regular basis but who would never even vaguely consider the option of leading an openly gay life.

KD

 

Hi KewlDewd,

I like your attitude. I can in no way disagree with anything you have said here.

 

Nice advice here guys, thanks. ^^

 

I totally agree. Just be patient, you will meet guys. To the OP - if you're so damn horny and desperate to get a shag, look on the internet for guys, don't go tricking straight guys because you will get the shit kicked out of you sooner or later.



Though...rather amusingly, a "straight" friend of mine (who knows that I'm gay) kinda made a move on me a few weeks back WHILE I WAS DRUNK. I regret that day...luckily nothing big happened, though he did imply he wanted to kiss and get a blowjob. It just ended with feeling, not even finishing or anything. Weird. God damn. Sorry, just a bad memory...the guy is a total weirdo pervert. Anyway, my point is that maybe getting the dude drunk might work...it did with me

 

The moves toward the straight friend should look natural.

Working on someone you who is not a friend but who you can meet a few times helps. And then step by step you approach him. Sure a bit of alcohol helps but isn’t there more challenge if no alcohol is involved?

If you feel he is not reluctant find a way to be alone with him and make something like spilling your drink on him. If he doesn’t get angry (because it is usually very obvious what you want) you know you will have him!

 

The Internet is worse than gay clubs for menfolks. Like, on the offchance that you DO find a naturally hot guy, they're always doing something or wearing something that just neutralises any erection you could ever have over them, even after they've stopped doing/wearing it. With straight guys, they're not doing anything to impress you (or, more often, the unknown banale gay-as-mass), they're just acting like men do and it's a lot more attractive. If gay people could just do that, I think we'd all be having a lot more sex.

And I'm pretty sure I won't get the shit kicked out of me. I'm careful. Way more careful than the "whoops I've spilled my drink on your cock, better clean it with my face!" angle some of us seem to be taking. By and large, if you approach a straight guy the same way you'd approach anyone else, you're not going to get physically hurt. Unless, of course, you approach them AND anyone else in a way that SHOULD get you decked by anyone, gay OR straight. Which a hell of a lot of gays do.

 

I can say I'm straight. I still see women and think some nasty thoughts. I'd never once fantasized about a gay experience. That all changed one day at work when a man on my floor was talking to me and he just put it out there ... for no reason he said "you do I know I'm gay right?" We were just talking about him being able to work at home. That whole thing has set off a new path for me. I've not done anything but it planted some strange seed in my mind. More often then not I find myself masturbating to elaborate sexual fantasies often involving multiple men. My main fantasy though is I imagine being talked into a blow job and I give in and say "If I've gotta be completely naked then so do you" and obviously that's not a problem for him. Then I imagine being on a couch with my ass pushed to the edge and my legs are open and stretched out resting on a coffee table. I imagine him in front between my legs sucking my dick, watching his lips slide up and down my hard dick. Before I know it he's lubed his fingers up and while sucking my dick he slides a finger into my ass. Then 2 and then a third. After a few moments he raises up on his knees and wraps his hand around my dick. He's steadily beating me off and before I realize it he's leaned towards me and his lubed dick quickly slides deep into my asshole and he starts fucking me. I feel like he owns me. At this point I'm consumed by being filled up and being controlled and my thoughts shift to wanting to please him and I wrap my legs around his ass pulling him in as deep as possible. I imagine him saying "I own you and this asshole... Your dick belongs to me now." And as he steadily fucks me he beats me off and I cum like I've never cum before. He pulls out and flips me over and butt fucks me doggie style with a hand on each shoulder driving himself in deeper and deeper. I can just imagine him pumping into me and the beatiful wet sound it makes and the slapping sound of his front smacking into my ass. And it itensifies Until he cums in my ass

So that's the secret to getting straight guys just plant many seeds and eventually like me some of those seeds will grow and the person will eventually beg you to suck their dick. I'm just wondering at what point I'll cross that line. I've already caught him staring at my dick while I was using the urinal. I must say it's my fault because I made sure I stood back far enough from the divider so he could see it and when I looked up I noticed him using the mirror at the sink to sneak a peak. I'm sure he noticed my dick was hard. Ok guys I need to go now... Just typing this has me hard as a rock and I'm going to take care of it right now in the bathroom. All the while fantasizing what my first experiece will feel like. Man I'm hard!!!

 

See, I get the feeling that a lot of guys just don't think about it until someone puts the idea in their mind.

 

That's it ... I think it is not thought of until someone says something and in me it set off this overwhelming curiosity that has really consumed my thoughts. I think the seed could easily be planted by saying "You know I'm gay right? So you obviously know I'm into guys." If it's somewhere drinks are being served the seed can be planted by simply going full throttle and saying "you know I've often wondered and it might just be the alcohol talking what it might be like to suck your dick. You do know that men can do it way better than women because we know what really feels good. Just something for you to think about. So you want another drink?"

I'd probably blow a hole in the front of my pants. Besides the alcohol IS a good idea even if it is completely uneffective for both people. Why? Because it gives the straight guy a reason to go forward, he can always tell himself it was because of the alcohol.

By the way ... This is off topic but sort of related. Is sucking a dick pleasurable for the person sucking? Is it the taste or the act that drives you to want to do it? I'm asking because I'm also intrigued by the idea of giving a blowjob or doing sixty-nine. I'm starting to wonder what it would feel like to have my lips wrapped around a dick and sliding over my tongue and touching my throat. Especially since I don't gag easily. Geez I hate just thinking about it and not being able to do anything about it.

 

the process of "tricking someone" into hetrosexual sex is the oldest legitimate game ever.

Why should it be the other way around for gays?

If I'm on the beach at Asbury Park, its always nice to speak with other people there, Its kinda flattering to feel attraction from someone else. Even if your not in the game. Its all a game really, makes life interesting.

 

That's not so much planting a seed as dropping a whole forest on someone's face

It'd be great if we could just say that to guys without fear of reprisal. In reality, it's a good way to get punched, which is pretty much the only reason I'd be doing anything even remotely "underhand". Like you say, sometimes it's about making someone aware that it's an option more than anything. A lot of guys who wouldn't necessarily choose a guy over a girl will still be up for a blowjob from a guy if it's that or nothing.

 

alcohol is only HALF the answer. watch a porno movie together to get him aroused,hot and bothered, then make your move...:reddevil:

 

For me I would say it is the sensation, the way it feels to run my tongue around the head of a erect dick. Kissing, licking, and caressing the genital of another. I get a real kick out of giving pleasure to others. I like to try in make it last a long a possible. And, I'm not picky. I like to do both girls and guys. Just writing about it get me excited.

 

Dammit why can't you be here right now ... I've got almost 11 inches I'd like for you to taste. LOL!!!

 

I'm a straight guy, well I'd say I'm 10% gay. I've been with two guys. (no butt sex) I get hit on my gay men often because I live one block from the "hook-up" park, and I walk where ever I go. I'd rather not have any guy trying to trick me into the sack, but I doubt that anyone could get me naked unless I truly wanted it. I do so many drugs anyway that if someone gave me a date-rape drug I'd probably just thank them for the free buzz.

 

as a straight dude, i can say that we would appreciate if you gay dudes would avoid creepy tactics with us.

 

Too bad Huston is so far away. I would love to run my tongue up and down your 11 inches. I bet your cum is salty and delicious.

 

I agree with you. I do not think tricking people is cool. I want my playmates to be willing and receptive. It much more fun for both of us. Also, better chance of another play date. <(^o^)>

 

Hmmm, a lot of chest beating from both sides in this thread.

Gay guys hitting on straight guys, when does that ever happen? Most gay guys would be too petrified to try, and even if they do it would start with the "straight" guy making eyes at them.

This forum is a good example, how many threads from teen gay males (having a secret crush on a straight best friend for like 6mths too afraid to even admit to that guy they are gay, let alone gay for him) do you need to work out how it really is?


Big, big difference between a gay guy throwing out something suggestive to a straight guy to amuse himself, get him agro or get him to go away than actually trying to hook up.

As for straight guy that needs to verbalise his disgust at being "hit" on by a gay guys, same m.o as the hot girl in a boob tube that let her friends know everytime a guy stares at her chest. If he is truly being hit on by gay guys, that is going to happen when no one else is watching, so he cant verbalise as there is never anyone to corroborate.

There's roughly 2% of us and 98% of them somewhere on the Bi to Straight scale, the math doesnt lie.

Anyway, end of post, I'm going back to the real world, where I will keep on pretending its all about the morality of gay or whatever and not about some wives just thinking about dualling pork swords at the mere mention of gay, or some hubbies being comfortable around me but a little more excited around my girly boyfriend than they should be