Heteroflexual: Men Who Are Not Gay Or Bi, But Have Penis Fascinations.

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by HollywoodLife, Jun 10, 2015.

  1. jpdonleavy

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    I think age is definitely part of it and may have to do with the testosterone/estrogen balance shifting (although there are so many subtle hormones and endorphins emerging these days that maybe that's only part of it.) i Very much enjoyed mutual masturbation in high school - main reason being it took 15 minutes to organise it whereas it might take days, weeks or months to organise it with a girl. There where no "will you still respect me in the morning" negotiations and no guilt about being selfish and thinking only about our cocks. Love didn't come into it although we were affectionate.

    Point is, once I got to university I hardly remember that any of that had happened and it was only when my first marriage was winding down that I started to get a little nostalgic for those halcyon days, and occasionally think of one or two high school pals when I masturbated. Now, years later, if I met a bright guy with a good sense of humour I might well get into it.

    I've never tried giving or taking anal with a guy and only rarely with women; who generally found it painful so we didn't continue. However, oral sex seems to get the dopamine moving like a flash flood down an arroyo, not to mention a serotonin cascade to the frontal lobes (where it counts).
     
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    True to a certain degree, but many can do things with men and have no attraction to simply enjoying the heat of the moment
     
  3. The Imaginary Being

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    I feel obliged to reply as requested only because i willingly opened a thread which indicates its intent to talk about penis', so in that sense i suppose i'm fascinated. In turn, goddam i qualify to some degree.

    I feel kind of as though you've tricked me into being partially gay. you slippery bastard.
     
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  4. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Well, hello there, long time no see. A few of us here at HF missed you
     
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  5. The Imaginary Being

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    hey dude. ditto
     
  6. Vanilla Gorilla

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    And back to my regularly scheduled reply in this thread


    There is no such thing as heteroflexual, its a made up word

    You are all big sissy girly men who secretly want a big fat cock up your bot bot, gagging for it, dont know how to fix cars and cry at the end of The Notebook
     
  7. jpdonleavy

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    du hast richtig - Ominos, nicht whar?
     
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    some opportunist has already registered hetroflexual.com
     
  9. jpdonleavy

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    or the meat of the moment
     
  10. Bubbatuse

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    Fits me to a T.
    I love women, their bodies, looks, sex with them, all of it; almost excessively. I DON’T find men attractive, and have never had any emotional nor physical attraction to them. I’m actually repulsed by the thought of kissing or cuddling with one.
    When I was a teen, I was gifted with the ability to suck my own cock. It tasted so good, so raw, and the texture and contour fascinating and erotic. The swelling and throbbing, then the pulsating and jerking as it violently released in my mouth. I wasn’t in love with the taste or idea of swallowing it, but felt so good when I did. I got hard just writing this.
    I also found the pleasure of anal and prostate manipulation and, while masturbating, how it greatly increased the intensity of orgasm. I always wondered what it would feel like if I could slide my dick in my ass instead of my finger or small dildo.
    I’m 50 now, and sorely miss being able to do that again. I find myself enjoying looking at cocks that look like my own, or very similar. I want to jerk, suck and fuck it like it was my own. Beautiful shemales turn me on, as I get to look at a sexy woman and a cock at the same time, without the male attachment.
    I understand the labeling going on, but my understanding of what is ‘gay’ rules that out, and the ‘bisexual’ title doesn’t seem to quite fit, either, as there is absolutely zero interest in the male emotionally or attraction-wise.
     
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  11. Addicted2MEN

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    What is there not to admire about a male body. The grey hairy all the body hair, big balls and a nice big dick is a huge turn on
     
  12. StrykerMax

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    Wow - this does describe me! Never heard the term Hetroflexual before - but that is how I feel. (Sorry VG - I disagree with you). It may be a made up word - but the concept certainly fits and I am delighted to find that other men besides myself feel this way.

    I have often wondered about this feeling - it leads me to conclude that I must be b-confused or something - but damn it I have no desire at all to kiss, cuddle, or do anything with a man. However I am strongly attracted to the penis. I often view porn of handjobs and blowjobs etc with attractive cocks. Nothing better than a good cumshot! I have also enjoyed being seen on camera (live cams etc...) by other men - and we almost exclusively show only our cocks. Never our face. Frankly I don't want to see any other part of their body. I don't want to
    get to know them.

    The guilt that I have from this fascination is overwhelming at times. So I am relieved and excited to know that I am not alone. So yeah - the word may be made up - the condition is not.
     
  13. HollywoodLife

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    I believe that Vanilla Gorilla is a "gay bashing" troll who I "don't" personally believe that he hates gay people, but rather he simply gets asmusement from trying to piss people off or get a reaction of some sort.

    Fortunately, no one really gets too bothered by his comments so he's of not much concern.

    I believe I've seen other normal posts by him in other bi groups as a willing participant which is expected since he seems to like hanging out in posts like this.

    He claims to not have any of these so called gay feelings, but is still attracted to these type of group topics.

    Of course he will certainly deny that this is him. [See attached photo above]
     
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  14. HollywoodLife

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    Great post!! You can be assured that you're "not" alone. Just accept it and determine your comfort zone without the guilt or confusion. Be at peace with yourself knowing there are many others out there like you. That is the sole purpose for this group topic.
     
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  15. Irminsul

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    gaaayyyyy
     
  16. HollywoodLife

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    Status symbols for this topic have already been established in earlier posts. Again, this particular post is not questioning whether the acts are gay or not, but rather exposing "feelings" men have that are not 100% straight.

    It's obvious that people such as yourself believe that once the lines are crossed, one becomes 100% gay.
     
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    Obviously you don't know much about me, because obviously I don't care and am having fun and obviously you don't see the obvious.

    Obvious.
     
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  18. Vanilla Gorilla

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    What the what now? I claim not to have these so call gay feelings? Lolz.

    Call yourself what you want, but everyone is going to label you in a way they see fit, and there is sweet f.a you can do about it.

    ???

    Im sure i am not the only one on the whole internet that uses an albino gorilla as an avatar. I am not Steev84
     
  19. pensfan13

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    I believe that Vanilla Gorilla is a "gay bashing" troll who I "don't" personally believe that he hates gay people, but rather he simply gets asmusement from trying to piss people off or get a reaction ][/QUOTE]
    I think you should read a few more of vags posts before you make such a statement. If you do read more of his posts, please let me know which one finally makes you feel stupid for making this post.
     
  20. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Thats it, I'm changing my username
     
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