Heteroflexual: Men Who Are Not Gay Or Bi, But Have Penis Fascinations.

I am familiar with hermaphrodites, but I've never seen one with a real full sized fully functional penis. The image that you posted is not a real hermaphrodite. That is a fake fantasy girl image that has been altered similar to this one:

http://smutty.so.clients.cdn13.com//media_smutty/r/e/i/z/b/reizh-bsryp-8bceb9.jpg

If you Google real hermaphrodite genitals, you will see that it's usually just an enlarged clit like you mentioned, never a full sized normal looking penis like in your picture. If there are any hermaphrotites with a normal full sized functional penis and a vagina, it would be extremely rare. Again I have never seen any besides the fake porn pics.

 

there is no such thing as ''heteroflexual''. there are three possible orientations for human sexuality, that's it. ''oh-i-only-like-when-a-guy-shows-some-hipbone-at-full-moon-when-the-room-is-dark-after-having-had-three-glasses-of-wine-and-maybe-touching-it-too-eventually'' is not a sexuality. it's just wishing it was.

i don't like cum that much. don't care for the taste, smell, or texture of it. doesn't make me only 95% gay because of that. makes me 100% gay, because i still get it on with men only.

 

There is a difference between sexual activity and sexual orientation. Activity doesn't define orientation. There are many gay men who tried women, doesn't mean they aren't gay. There are also many women who experimented with other girls in high school and college who've gone on to live happy lives with husbands and kids..I'm straight but I've been with men..I only love and have romantic relationships with women..aside from being an orientation gay is a lifestyle and includes at least some aversion to being with women sexually..I have no such aversion nor do I have any interest in the lifestyle..to label myself as bi doesn't seem right either to me that implies some equal interest in men and women,, and that's just not the case..I had no curiosity growing up or in my teens..my first experience was in college when a gf asked to watch me with a guy after we had a three some with another girl..she set it up, got me a little drunk and I went along with it..she loved it and her there made it ok..I've looked at my interest in dick as almost like a fetish..once in a while it's fun to dress up or role play ..I its fun to incorporate food or bondage games into sex with a partner, but those things don't define my sexuality or preference..I'm just as fine with getting laid without any of those things..my experiences have been sporadic and I've gone long stretches without being with guys..won't label myself based on activity that been so sporadic and infrequent.and that I can do without.. .that just makes no sense..I'm just sexual and very openminded..

 

Great post teeezer.

I'm not averse to a bit of cock myself but wouldn't call myself gay or bi; just a little bi curious maybe.
There's nothing wrong with a bit of boy-boy action.

 

You nailed it Teeezer... I agree!!

 

Meh, everyone else will just think you are bi

 

Blah blah blah your'e bi

Bi bi bi bi bi

 

Hey VaG (short for VAnilla Gorilla),

By society's definition, I suppose you are right, but here's a newsflash, I define myself as I choose to and I could care less about the labels others choose to give..I clearly see the distinction between activity and orientation as well as the difference between lifestyle and ocassional participation..and as far as your opinion, blah blah, blah blah blah blah...

 

Hey VaG (short for VAnilla Gorilla),

By society's definition, I suppose you are right, but here's a newsflash, I define myself as I choose to and I could care less about the labels others choose to give..I clearly see the distinction between activity and orientation as well as the difference between lifestyle and ocassional participation..and as far as your opinion, blah blah, blah blah blah blah...

 

I have another newsflash for you, everyone else, is going to use whichever label for you whichever way they see fit, and there is nothing you can do about it, thats up to them

And no one believes you dont care what everyone else thinks, of course its important

Sure they are brave enough to use words like heteroflexible online, in a fantasy of the way they want things to be, but in real life, if they ever say it out loud, to the girls they are just saying 'I will always cheat on you'

 

Society labels have grey areas. And when situations are in the grey area (whether slightly or strongly), it becomes a matter of every individual of society's opinion.

Let's label:

Is a guy stroking on a dick gay/bi?
(What if the dick he's stroking is his own dick?) Masturbation?

Is a guy sucking on a dick gay/bi?
(What if he is able to suck his own dick to pleasure himself?) Masturbation?

What if two guys watch some "straight" porn after a football game and both begin to masturbate on the same sofa only wishing they had girls there.

What if two very insecure nerdy guys, who are "not" able to get girls, watch "straight" porn and jack each other off only wishing they had girls there?

The lables are there, and I get that, but this thread is about how people "feel" in the grey area of straight and bi.

Hereroflexual is a unofficial label of that grey area... and this thread is to see how many men would actually be willing to label themselves as Heteroflexual which is "not" bisexual... but is "not" 100% straight either obviously.

In other words, men who are mostly straight but open minded to sexual pleasures involving a penis... ("not" men emotionally, lifestyle, or orientation).

This would be "without the fear" of society labeling them as bisexual or gay.

Who would accept the Heteroflexual label (which society so demands to label bisexual or gay)?

 

WOW! Just wow! I know a friend who is EXCATLY as you described in your post. Zero attraction to male body, no desire to date, kiss in the lips, no emmotional connection. This exists I can assure for real and many men has it I bet.

Amazing xD Heteroflexual I m liking the word!

 

I guess I'm not the only one .. I have a hott girl and fuck hot girls too but I have a thing for black cocks . Only BBC I can't get off on any other porn it has to have a black cock n makes me want to try one out like the girls in the movies

 

I have tried the bbc and it is not that great. The size is fun but you can't fit it all in your mouth and don't want to try and fit it other places so it is just for show and tell

 

I could also say i was having sex without being attacted to my partner, male or female. Some were really ugly but sex is sex. For me the sex with guys was mostly about the experience. For girls it was about how hard they made me cum

 

People can use what ever label they are comfortable wit really, as for me, as a guy who has at least some gay fantasies I like the term technically bisexual, that's how I'd describe a lot of women as well who have kissed girls or that at least sometimes like lesbian porn etc...the term predominantly heterosexual also works.

 

Heteroflexual! I qualify! The description fits me very well. For me this excitement with penises has just surfaced in the last couple of years.

I'm 64 and in a sexless marriage, and watch porn to masturbate. I thought maybe the porn just sort of led me down that road, but I also think it may be a thing that happens with age, or when we don't have a sexual outlet with a female partner.

I love watching vids of cocks cumming and guys stroking.

 

Does your mind want other stuff too

 

I don't find men attractive otherwise, if that's what you mean. The thought of kissing a guy creeps me out, as does anal sex.

I figure a good gauge of gay-or-not-gay is when you enter a room full of people, where does your attention go? I'm automatically scoping out the women, so I figure I'm straight.

 

You are right on. So many forum messages (here and elsewhere) agonise endlessly over whether or not the writer is bisexual - "this guy on the beach had a bulge and my cock reacted - BUT IT WAS ONLY A SEMI - am I bi, or one night after 17 tequilas, I let my best friend suck me off and I gave him a handjob BUT IT WAS ONLY ONCE - yada yada

I guess people in the public eye or married guys or people who are religious (apparently there are still a few) could be hurt if anyone found out that they ever bought into the gorgeous mouthfeel of a slippery pink (or otherwise) boner pistoning in and out of their mouth and nubbing the lumen of their throat giving them a kind of choky feeling, before spurting, squirting gushing down their throat in a sac-draining ejaculation while the guy whose throbbing hard-on moans and cries out . . . where was I ???