he's 28 and ..me, 16

You aren't the only 20+ year old in the world, bro.

 

My dad's friend Brian is dating a 26-year-old and he's 39.
peace & love.

 

but that's different! a 26 year old is more mature than a 16 year old! they're almost in different worlds!

 

You're right. I don't know any of you personally and without knowing you I can only generalize. But how can you dismiss the possibility that what you're doing isn't good for you when almost everyone commenting older than the people in question are saying it isn't, and the only ones good with it are young people without the life experience to make such a judgement. (Again a generalization. Don't shoot) I'm certain this post isn't going to make me any friends, but I think it's the truth. Hey, do whatever you want! Just don't be suprised if it doesn't turn out the way you'd planned. My post was only intended to encourage you (if you're involved in this type relationship or ANY relationship where people are likely to take advantage of you) to ask yourself some tough questions. That's all.

 

No, my love. I sowed my oats in my younger days and now my heart (and the rest of me) is all yours.

 

Finally somebody that summarized my point.... thank you.

 

no problem...anytime...

 

i so no how u feel ann-kim n it really does suck

 

NOO!! hey ppl, he lives alone in his dirty flat, he will never get married, too, He is creepy punk guy forever, he doesnt even has normal job,

 

and now {i moved away} i study, i work, im a journalist, thanks God, my new bf is gorgeous, but i dont think i will ever forget Him...I worry about Him, My friends told me that he's unhappy now. he should stop his stupid relationships with all these sluts and think about marriage, He is 28, but he's a big child in fact.

 

WE DIDN'T HAVE SEXXXXXXXXXXXXX, ok. HE'S NOT LIKE THAT

 

my 2 cents: a 28yr old who would date a 16yr old is screwed in the head. What do highschoolers have in common with people in their late 20's? not much, unless the person in their late 20's is a complete freakshow and LIKES hearing about teachers and homework and friends.

 

fuunny thought

 

you can be friends with anyone of any age...sleeping with people is different.
i wouldnt sleep with my eleven year old friend..and i wouldnt sleep with my 27 year old friend...

in these cases in ts a case of sorting out the weak from the herd..picking off the easy ones..prying...fro sex! its s quite simple..sod all this..he loves/understands me..its basic...preying technique

 

I was engaged to someone 45 years old and I was 14. This was an extremely unhealthy relationship and it was full of deceit, manipulation, and nearly another kid. I am so thankful I saw him for what he was before it was too late. He tried to alienate me from my parents and he tried to convince me to tell the police that my father was abusing me (which he wasn't) just so that he could gain custody of me. The first time he ever touched me in a sexual way I was under the legal age of consent and the only reason I didn't press charges is because I had faith that he would say the error of his ways. Since then he's had numerous affairs and is going out with a 17 year old. He really jaded me, and I am so angry at him for it.

 

AnnAKim, when I was your age, I found myself in the exact situation. This guy was 28, and we stole eachother's hearts. Problem was, he was with another chick and had kids. But I know that in both of our hearts, the love was genuine. We clicked so well, and really it felt like we were SOUL MATES! Our relationship was pure.... we didn't need sex. We just loved being around eachother. But then someone in his family died and left him a house, so he moved away. And we haven't talked since. But I know what you mean.....I felt like there was a HUGE hole in my heart after he left. I bawled my eyes out and was very upset and depressed. I just felt that it was better to let go than to pull him away from his kids and stuff.... But I still remember feeling so alive and so free when I was with him. But now I look back and see that it was all for the best. Yeah, I still have feelings for him in my heart, and can't say I really regret it. He was my best friend for a while... and he made a lasting impression on my life. I wish you the best in your situation.... and I hope you are a good judge of character as well.

luv mj

 

WHOA! 45?? with a 14 year old?? What a cradle-robber. That's just sick. Was he all wrinkly and stuff too? And when he touched you in a sexual way....what did you expect....?

Well I'm glad you got away from that pervert.

 

I was such a push over, I didn't want to hurt his feelings, ya know, but I always felt really dirty and so ashamed especially because he was married. Theres a reason its illegal, I'll tell ya that right now. I've found that I have a really hard time trusting men and most men don't deserve that kind of doubt.
The first time he touched me I sort of held back my tears, I didn't want to do it but I trusted him because he was an adult (a doctor at that) and I figured if he said theres nothing wrong with it then there must not be.
Also, he wasn't overly wrinkly but he was balding and going grey (down there too).
To think that his ex wife gave him joint custody of the kids after that just makes me want to puke.

 

yeah, moonlight.... in my situation... we didn't have sex. But if we would have... I think that would have ruined EVERYTHING. Those laws are good laws.

 

I've decided to become a lawyer partially because of what I went through. Justice is very uncommon.