Here is my confession, what is yours?

Yeah I have the same thing happen to me. I'm about to get it on with a hot girl, then I wake up to the dog sniffing my face, or my alarm, or the mailman at the door. I just run straight to the bathroom and masturbate while I'm still aroused. Usually works well for me

 

Today I gave my niece ( in her 20's) a few kisses & several big long hugs, as I am not going to get to see her for a few years as she's heading overseas this week & I will miss her so much. She didn't realise just how much I loved her until that & she's never had that many hugs from me at one time. Now with the bad thing that happened recently with a certain airline, I just had to show her my true feelings for her - I hope she returns home again safely & doesn't come to the same fate as those recently.
But at least I'll be able to keep in contact with her in a few other ways while she's overseas. That's a blessing with so much modern technology !

 

fixed?

 

No comment lol, but she did get several big hugs from me not just short one's either.

 

LOL - perfect.

 

I used to have constant dreams where I would find a girl or whatever, you know dreams you just arrive in a situation, just some random dream person and we wanted to have sex but we just couldn't find any place private to get it on, I'd spend all dream just wandering around trying to find privacy. So after a while (i mean over the course of months/years of dreaming) I would usually try a bathroom to find privacy to have sex in the dream but then of course another caveat the bathroom would be disgusting so as you can see there was always some caveat preventing me from actually having sex. After awhile I started reading up on lucid dreams and dream control and have pretty much conquered the issue. When I finally was able to get good at recognizing I was dreaming I could then take control and change the outcome.

Anyway, too much babbling but what I suspect is...

You had this happen a couple times and now subconsciously expect this outcome and are kinda stuck in this loop. Waking up when about to have sex happens sometimes (to everyone), I mean it gets you excited your heart is pumping it seems real waking up is natural, just like you wake up when your falling to your death in a dream or whatever. You need to conquer the dream recognize your dreaming and keep yourself getting too worked up.

Anyway, oddly enough I now have strong urges to have sex in public places where there is the minute possibility i could be caught. Odd how that happened.

 

i don't know, i ALWAYS know that if i'm in a sexual situation in a dream, it's just a dream (maybe because i never seem to be in sexual situations outside of dreaming... sigh...). still, i always wake up before penetration. even knowing it's a dream, either the girl won't allow it, or i just wake up before it happens. hell, it's gotten to the point where i just focus on foreplay in sex dreams because i know that i won't wake up immediately during it.

 

happens to me too..i'm always SO close...and then...awake, moaning in bed

 

I've over recent years fallen in love with someone much younger than me but I wont say who she is or how old she is.

 

Sorry to hear, QS.

Me, for whatever reason, I never remember my dreams unless I'm sick or otherwise thrown off with a really wacky sleep schedule. I also sleep like a rock. If I'm having any terrific sex dreams, I'm not remembering them to make it worth it!

Still, even though there's no woman in my life right now, I can't complain. I personally feel VERY content/satisfied sexually at present, merely from pleasuring myself in my waking hours...

 

See that's cuz you're a man. I think guys don't need the physical connection like women do. The act of sex....the interaction, the pounding penetration, the release....there's no replacing it.
I have masturbated a few times but because of my hormones...I'm still outrageously horny...to the point of irritation and discouragement.
...the dreams end too quickly. I just need real sex.

Oh, and nice to see you around Captain Amazing, it's been a while.

 

No, its not the person's age at all, really but yes she is a lot younger than me & very attractive & its everything I love about the one I have fallen in love with a lot more over recent years.

 

Hey now, I only said I can sexually satisfy myself. I said NOTHING about a valid REPLACEMENT for the act of sex!

Although my current relationship situation sucks and I'm missing a connection I'm really wired for/long for, my mind-blowing, grunting, convulsive solo orgasms are still terrific for what they are. I can't complain too much.

 

Ok, clarified. But, I can't sexually satisfy myself, I am still longing, and I do wonder if it's a gender issue between men and women...needs, I don't know, it might just be me. I have mind blowing, wonderful orgasms. I enjoy it. But I still feel like...a MAJOR need for penetration...sex...skin to skin. Maybe it's my hormones -- my body is at the highest peak of sexual desire, to the point where it's all I can think about. ...sigh.


.....for the confession thread... I'm really pissed off right now.
I am a complex beautiful woman. If someone comes to me with the average game, I'm not impressed. I want to feel enticed and interested. Stir things up with me, make me want you. I want that, but I can't make it happen.

 

Totally agree here...even guys, though we can sometimes look at sex a bit more objectively...yearn for that heart-pumping, holding a woman's legs spread open and the thrusting/grabbing/dripping type of fuck. I wake up every morning thinking about it...I definitely desire that physical/emotional intimacy that comes with a mind-numbing orgasm

 

Well said youngnpassion

 

Nothing - NOTHING - replaces another person sexually. I remember all too painfully, all too hungrily, all too desperately, the desire for another human being to share that with. The exile from real sex, real carnal connection is excruciating after a while. Masturbating becomes something to barely sustain sexual sanity, a necessary anodyne. But it's not the same. Better than nothing, but insufficient in the long term. We are human; we need another human to join with. It's in our nature.

 

I love it when I get a glimpse of of a womans body you don't normally see. If she reaches up to grab something and her shirt ride up a bit

 

About 30% of my sexual experience has been with women. One of which was much younger than me.


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