Here is my confession, what is yours?

Everybody has sexual desires and frustrations. A lot of people (like me) are cowards in the area of expressing these thoughts. Why should these thoughts be treated any differently from any other thoughts about any other topic.

The fact that you ignore the messages that you receive from guys that are assuming things based on your posts says a lot. I enjoy your posts about sexual desires and frustrations, but I don't assume that there isn't more to you than that. I wish I could be more expressive that way - like I said before why should sex be treated differently than any other subject.

 

You shouldn't feel that way at all. You're beautiful, intelligent, funny, AND you have a high sex drive. I totally understand where you're coming from. I post quite a bit in the love and sex forums, and I get the random messages on occasion. Sometimes I laugh it off, sometimes I chew them out because it's THAT disrespectful. I've been called a whore a couple times by a couple different people on here, and there's plenty that make it obvious that they just view me as a piece of meat. (Although the ones that actually get to know me, know different.) I guess my point is, defend yourself when you feel you need to, and brush off the rest.

 

The only reason you have a better response than I do is because you can relate better than I can, you have a better mastery of and security in your own sexuality than I do and you're probably smarter than me. Otherwise, my post would have been better.

 

I eat onions, lots of them

 

Lol! Yeah, but you bring a male perspective to the table. Let's just say we both contributed in different ways.

 

I don't want to belabor the point, or hijack a confessions thread, but I have to say that you seem to make yourself perfectly clear - you are a self-described "good girl who just really loves sex" (or words to that effect) and that your frustration actually comes from the very fact that you don't engage in sex unless you are in a relationship. It's people's twitter-sized attention spans that are the issue, not your posts. They're just not paying attention.

 

You aren't a coward. It's not easy to be expressive, sexually. I just write how I feel and am open about it.
It's hard for a lot of people to put together than one can be very sexual and yet a good quality person. I was feeling down about things or wondering who I may have scared off as possible friends or people I never met because i left the wrong impression.

Mama, I am MORE than flattered that you said such kind things about me, as
I respect you around the forums as a top leading poster and value your opinion. Thanks, and I'll keep this in mind.

dark_river -- you make me wonder about you, with you being new around here, you know an awful lot. I find it interesting though, and I appreciate that you have been so observant of things. Thank you.

 

I agree with wcw and Mama. There is nothing to be ashamed of. There is nothing wrong with sharing your desires. That's what forums are for. You are a beautiful, sweet and amazing person. Anybody that knows anything about you knows that you're not a whore. Having sexual desires and needs doesn't make you whore. Anybody that has that impression of you hasn't been paying attention to your posts. Being a woman here, we run the risk of those messages from guys when you post in the love and sex forums. If certain messages make you uncomfortable then you are right in not responding. I had a lot of people messaging me when I first came here about stuff like that. It has dramatically decreased recently. You have to weed out the pervs to get to the good people. I've made quite a few friendships here that have nothing to do with sex. If you are looking to make friends with people who aren't just wanting to talk about sex you can also post in the random thoughts section. You can get to know more people on there that aren't in it just to talk to you about sex. I guess its just about what you are looking for.

I feel like dark river has been lurking here for a while without posting. You seem to know an awful lot about the people on this board with having very few actual posts. That intrigues me. I'm not saying that in a bad way. Welcome to HF! You are very observant.

 

I saw a few pubic hairs of my attractive niece's (aged in her early 20's) the other day when she was visiting. She had a short skirt on & when she changed her sitting position, that's when I saw her briefs were not completely covering them all. Her hairs were the same colour I thought I had guessed they would have been. She's got a nice deep breasts cleavage too & a nice figure.

 

Oh my god...

 

She wears very low cut tops at times & works in the clothing industry. She sure knows how to dress to get attention

 

I think most of you will agree that the question we just HAVE to have answered is....what color was her pubic hair? That's a joke. Please don't share that information.

 

No, I wont but it wasn't purple

 

Thanks, I appreciate it. Your last sentence is something that I need to clear up that I'm not really looking for anything and that's why I post mainly in the sex forums because I'm just airing something at the time or replying to someone. I sign in to talk to friends....but I don't want to wrong kind of guys to think I'm looking for anything!

You know your niece is pretty much just like being your own daughter and that's pretty sick that you can't be mature and decent enough not to look at her that way.
I have nieces and nephews, of various ages and they are just like my own kids to me.
You are supposed to be someone she can trust, depend on and look up to...not be her pervy uncle who can't keep his mind out of the gutter.
You should encourage her to dress more lady like and tell her that there are dirty bad guys out there. (instead of being one of them)

 

i hope i dont get aroused by the doc removing my stents. from what i hear its a bit uncomfortable but you never know when someone is playing around with it...im sure its happened before.

 

The first time I came from sex was after the 20th or so time. I would just hump away and the girls would come over and over until it became uncomfortable for them. Then after sleeping with the same girl a couple of times we did it unprotected, and after about 25 minutes of that I finally came. It was amazing. Still take a while these days, but I consider that a blessing

 

She sells expensive type clothing & also wears what she sells & it shows off her nice figure. She sometimes wears low cut tops & I just like the way she knows how to wear the perfect type of clothing that suits her body shape etc. She never use to wear such revealing clothing until she got this job. She usually wears perfect fitting jeans that show her figure nicely. Not like some that wear clothes that look way too big for them.

 

lol

 

She helps & shows customers (& sometimes fits certain types of clothing on them ) ( woman) what type of clothes suit their age group & body type. She helps to show woman what bra suits them & how to fit them in the right way.
She's got a lot of experience thou now in that type of job. She knows what style of clothes best suit her figure & shape / size & how to best show off her body.

 

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