Help ;(

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by BDarla, Oct 19, 2013.

  1. BDarla

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    First of all sorry for my bad english.. :oops: I hope you will understand me.
    So i know 1 girl , she is a lesbian. Well i like her A LOT ! I`ve never though i can like girls but this one make me crazy.. she is on my mind all day all night 24/7h :X:X Every time when i see her i dont know why but i do stupid things.. stupid things just happen to me all the time . So my question is how to be attractive for her , how to draw her attention , i even dont know how to start chatt with her , im so confused?

    Please help.. i dont know what to do , i`ll loose my mind soon
     
  2. Micheal9

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    For me a woman just needs to smile at me and say hi to get my attention. I know it's easier said than done when your that crazy about someone. It sounds like you know this girl a little? If you know an interest of hers you can strike up a conversation about it.
     
  3. BDarla

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    Yeah but .. she dont know that i like her , she thinks i am straight (well.. i think i was until i met her). Well when i try to talk with her we just dont have what to talk about thats why i dont know whats she is interested in.. its so awkward moment when i just try to give her signal or to start conversation.. she may think i am mad
     
  4. Micheal9

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    I understand I did the same thing with a girl I liked. Your intimidated by her and you don't want to ruin your chance. Just need to approach her like you don't care if you get a date with her or not. From what I've seen it works.
     
  5. BDarla

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    Thank you Micheal :)
     
  6. Micheal9

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    You could give her a compliment on her cloths or hair and ask more about where she got her hair done or where she got her cloths from and try and keep the conversation going.
     
  7. BDarla

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    We had some awkward moments together and i am worried about how to start this conversation , i think all day about how to invite her for coffe.
     

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