help with my first time

Hi ,right I have a problem tomorrow my boyfriend is coming over and he wants to have sex. I'm 18 and he's 17 and before you ask yes I'm ready but here is the problem not only am I a virgin but his penis is quite big it's 8inches long and 4.5inches thick. We've have already done oral sex even though it hurt my jaw a little I enjoyed it. He insists that he doesn't want to have sex but i feel ready so I wanted to ask what it feels like to have sex with a big penis and more importantly for any tips to ease the pain (I am pretty sure the pain is worth it).Or any posistions you can recomend to make it more plesurable. thank you in advance

 

Wow, if he doesn't want to it might be a good idea not to. As far as how to make it feel better,,, if he doesn't want to it might be a good idea not to,,,,,

 

he does not want to? why?

 

you said he's coming tomorrow and he wants to have sex...but then you said he's insisting he doesn't want sex.

 

if one of you isnt ready then dont do it

 

I totally agree.

However, should you both find yourselves ready all I can say is that there is no such thing as too much foreplay. If penetration doesn't feel right its easy to go back to foreplay as well. Make sure you are both heated right up and wet as you ever have got. Being young and hormonal, none of that should be a real issue.

And as far as the most comfortable position to start with ease, missionary, this way depth can be controlled easily with face to face communication and you have lots of freedom to reposition or move your legs around to make it more comfortable.

 

Awesome advice, I didn't want to give any tho because I don't think they are both really ready.

 

Thanks I agree that they don't seem ready as well but figured its worth knowing something in case it ever changes.

 

Good point, hopefully it helps when they are ready.