hey everyone i am new here and i need help ::blushes:: i spent the week with my boyfriend last week and it was the first time me and him had sex... i tried having anal but it hurt sooo bad.... i read that you must be relaxed in order for you to do it... so we didn't try again for the rest of the night... the next night me and him smoked a bowl and we where finally able to have anal and omg it felt amazing!!! being able to take all 9 inches and 3 inch thick cock felt sooooo amazing i had three orgasms!! we tried again several times thru out the week and we couldnt do it again... i really want to feel him inside me!!! any advice would be amazing!!!
Train. While, as you discovered, it can be sometimes possible in the right circumstances to have painless anal without preparation and training, that's not generally the case and if you want it to be something you can easily do regularly, you need to practice and train with toys.