HELP! things to tell someone who wants your whoohoo and you don't want their penis

I've used the PTSD thing myself once or twice myself...worked a whole lot better than "it's not you, it's me". lol

 

I tried that, only I really was on my period and so I felt good about not lying. But then the guy said he didn't care. So that didn't work.

 

Like I said before, when my "little buddy" is standing at attention.....there is minimal blood flow to the brain and it's hard to see clearly. And when a chick intentionaly gets him to stand at attention, it's hard not to assume sex is in my near future.

Why bring out the leash if you're not taking him out for a walk?

 

but you know there exists something like nonverbal communication ? if, say, you let a guy have a look at your cleavage down to your toes then this is the EQUIVALENT of saying you want sex with him without even moving your lips !

 

first of, I don't have any cleavage, my boobs are almost innexistant, second, I just decided to avoid all men

 

I think the word your looking for, dear, is "no". and if it's someone you really care about, "No, thank you." And it really is ok to say.

 

what about sending me the password for your erotic gallery ? then I could judge by myself ;-)

 

it amazes me that so many here actually believe that you need to come up with an "excuse" to not have sex!

No one - no one has any right to expect sex from you. Period. No one has any right to demand the most intimate sharing of your body and emotions as a matter of obligation. Your body is yours. No one else's. You do not have to provide any excuses or explainations. No is a perfectly ok thing to say. You can say it lovingly or you can say it bluntly. Either way, it's ok to say.

And if someone is being that pushy with you, it's a pretty good indication they are not relationship material anyway. Sex is a sacred sharing, not a duty or social obligation. You are a whole and sacred being, not a recreational object for boorish pigs who just want to get off.

Don't allow these fuckers to ever cause you to forget that.

 

You say that like you're not wearing plaid flannel PJs and walking around barefoot...

 

:banghead:

 

I can't help it if I'm emotionallly stuck at 15. Ahhh, 1978. It was a pretty good year.

 

okay, I wont... thank you

you're right...

 

showing a little cleavage is not code for "i want to fuck every man i see" sorry hon

 

You're right. It's a code for "let me cock-tease one of these assholes till he gets blueballs, make a toy out of their sexual desires, and get an ego-boost from it." Cockteasers are the scum of the Earth, make no mistake about it.

 

has it ever occurred to you that maybe a woman's body isn't all about you?

 

actually, sorry, i'm typically teasing when i'm showing off my tits. sorry.

 

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Showing a little cleavage does all that? Well fuck me for not liking to wear t-shirts and turtle-necks everyday. Come on! Cleavage is just fat smooshed together. Nothing exciting about that.

 

I'm sure there are men out there in your town who'll fuck you for not wearing t-shirts and turtle-necks everyday. They will show you how unexciting your cleavage is...

 

Fat smooshed together? Come on....its more than that.

 

She's playing a cock-teasing passive-aggressive game. She knows what's what.