HELP! things to tell someone who wants your whoohoo and you don't want their penis

funny that's the first thing on mine

 

ok maybe this needs to be in another forum if it switches in this direction but if i do that... guys STILL get offended i wont let them IN... with their cock, that is.

So after the no... what comes? The "later" and then cut them off, right?

Ugh this is going nowhere.

Let's talk about...


this weird episode of Futurama I just saw, and Beck was singing and then Paul Simon started singing this absolutely weird version of Scarborough (I know, I didn't spell it right, shut up) Fair, with a robot. I wish I was high.

 

For me, when a relationship ends it ends. I don't carry it over and take it out on someone else. I understand where you're coming from.....you need to make sure ur new guy/s understand why you won't "let them in," otherwise they'll think that you're a mean tease.

And I don't know the situation, so I hope I'm not sounding like a "know-it-all" because I'm not. I just hate it when girls assume that I know whats going on in their head.....because we are very rarely on the same page

 

I wish people knew what was in my head instead of assuming it... and be wrong... very wrong... a lot of the time... or let others tell them what's in my head instead...

 

You're right to protect yourself. You don't owe anything to anybody but yourself.

 

I disagree. I think humanity is suffering from an excess of safety and suspicion.

 

You can think anything you want as long as it doesn't tread on the rights of others.

 

I don't mind people thinking whatever they want about me, as long as it's RIGHT and not bullshit...

 

No one can be more right about your navel than yourself.

That is why nature has responded evolutionarily to the demand for communication.

 

Communication! That's it. That's what lacks in my life right now...

 

That's why we're on here, no? Anyway, communication requires tolerance, which seems to have fallen out of favor these days especially among women.

 

I was being sarcastic. Toys are boring.

 

wtf, youre seriosuly over 20 and havent figure dout "no" yet? havent realized that warning a guy ahead of time is a nie thing to do. hell, i did that to my bf this morning ("i love you feel hon but i dont feel up to any real fooling around".... so we grinded a bit together and then he jerked off on my tits, it was great and didnt get me all sore and messy like sex usually does)

seriously woman, warn the boys ahead of time that they arent getting any real fucking. i dont know how far you take the dry sex/grinding, but, make sure you keep both persons underwear on if you dont want them to expect sex. hell, id say both parties keep their pants on, unless you decide to suck their cock to relieve em

 

Sounds like a personal problem...
I just don't do the whole sex outside of being in a relationship thing

 

I hate it when guys assume they're entitled to sex. Unless i say 'god I wanna jump your bones' no one's jumping anyone and no one should assume otherwise.

 

god I wanna jump your bones

 

"I'm sorry but that triggers my PTSD rage, I got off on an insanity charge after the last person triggered it, but the only way they would let me out of the institution was if I promised not to do anything to trigger again. If you want we can take this up with my court ordered therapist."

 

I've used my PTSD as an excuse before when I didn't want to have sex...I know that's freaking awful, but I really wanted out of that relationship and didn't know how to be honest.

 

It's better to be blunt and get it over with, lie or not, than string them along with half ass excuses so they think there's still hope.

 

I completley agree. I was young and stupid. Now I am young and a little less stupid