HELP please.....he says i push him out and he doesnt get hard enough....

honestly I don't think there's anything wrong with your vagina. He might be good with his mouth but does he make u hot and horny for his penis? I say that because I've pushed guys out before but mainly because he wasnt doing it right. U can't be gentle with a female with tight twat muscles or else it will come out. In my case u have to make sure the whole penis is in before doing any pumping . And since you've been compliemented on this feature before isn't it safe to say he just doesn't know how to handle you?

 

viagra?

how old is this guy?

 

Your man can't sustain an erection.

This happens for either physical or psychological reasons.

A few questions you need the answers for:

1. Did this happen to him before, with other partners?
2. Is he into women?
3. Is he into you?
4. Is he on any medication? Hormones count.

If you can honestly answer all of those with a yes, he needs to see a doctor. If there's nothing physically wrong, he needs a therapist.

If you're not sure about 2. or 3., you're wasting your time.

PS: the problem lies with him, not with you.

 

He's either in denial about his problem or is trying to divert attention from himself. Which of the two is true?

When you can't talk to your partner openly and are afraid that you will 'damage his ego' by speaking your mind, you can say goodbye to any prospect of a happy long-term relationship.

 

I am with older guys, and have a youthful athletic pussy, so my main focus is to keep it less physical and more sensual, at least for a while. It is one way to keep from centering too much on cock. If the encounter is dependent on how hard they are, then likely they won't stay hard. On the other hand, some like it very sleazy. It's a very intricate science. Seriously!!

 

try a cock ring. And communication shouldn't be as bad as your making it out to be. I'm sure he's aware of his ED. Maybe you could discuss seeing a doctor. Or try some herbal supplements.

 

You do have to have a chat with him and it should not be in the bedroom. If you're having sex someplace other than the bedroom save the chit chat for a time when you aren't having sex. This is obviously an issue and you have to work it out. The only way to do that is if you communicate.

Something you might want to try is when you are on top of him and he's erect wrap yourself around his cock. Don't insert, just slide up and down his shaft. You should be able to have clitoral stimulation and with less pressure on him he may be able to stay hard long enough for both of you to climax. If your nude he'll be able to see your breasts and play with them as you ride him. Good for the both of you. At any rate its worth a shot.

Good luck.

 

Thanks all who have given their thoughts. Now I just have to wait til he's home next to discuss it with him.
Love this forum everyone is so open and willing to share their experiences