HELP! My sex life is boring!

Well yep.. me as well : )

Just offering the other perspective.

 

You may be right.

 

Hi After reading down this thread and I think phil1965 has you, but can I add I think if you want a sex life like any normal couple has you must split up and be the man and go hunting for the women you really need in you life, otherwise your go mad for wanting, cant see any other way for you to go unless the loony bin beckons you in.

Somewhere is the women you want and not that to far away

 

"you must split up and be the man and go hunting for the women you really need in you life"

^ dude
Split up? ...Be the man and go hunting ?

StanRedman has to fix himself first, he's half the problem. Splitting up is a weak move if he hasn't attempted to fix his neediness and being a doormat to "himself"

StanRedman can't go hunting and be successful unless he fixes his problems. Otherwise, eventually the new woman in his life will end up the same way towards him as his wife.

"Somewhere is the women you want and not that to far away"
I agree, but the woman you want, will be found when you are at your best centered masculine self.

StanRedman can attempt and be successful in fixing his marriage back to the passion long lost.

 

The only one not posting or contributing to this conversation is Stan...

 

This is a helpful response! Therapy did very little except get my head back in a better place.
She does work but this has been going on for a long time now and I’m just looking for something to try that is different, I have no desire to go looking around!
I think I will try having another conversation! Thankyou

 

Yeah, Phil has helped a bit! More the kinda response I was looking for! Although any advice is helpful at this point!

 

Not sure why I’d join a site to get advice as a lie :/ pretty sure it does happen!

 

i feel like this directly contradicts your other post about being a manly man and showing no weakness.

 

After Stan exposes his weaknesses to the life coach, he or she will empower Stan with the abilities to become more of a man. His wife seeing Stan own up to weakness, might do him well when he becomes in his center, being more masculine and notices the life coach sessions working. Stan has hit rock bottom, he can't be anymore weaker in his or her eyes. He'll go from -0 to a 8 or 9 in masculinity after sessions with the life coach.

 

Is that when I get my beard, cigar and rippling abs?
I find this kind of view very archaic, do I then beat her over the head, drag her back to my cave and then fuck until she likes it?

 

^ Spoken like a week minded child.

Go book some sessions with a life coach, you'll thank me later.

 

Great he just needs 2oo dollars for half an hour to an hour 4 times a month? is it worth it?

 

What moves you up the masculinity spectrum?

 

It's so worth it.

He'll have to shop around on price.
Doesn't have to be in person
Can be done over the phone
All the money people piss away.....and never use a little bit of gathered money to make their lives a world of difference better. Get a jar and add some daily/weeky/bi monthly/monthly dollars for life coach sessions.

I've spent boat loads on life coach sessions.
I've never felt better. I live in a positive abundance with friends, family and women that want to date and spend time with me

 

For openers

Stop being needy.
Stop being insecure.
^
If you're doing these two
You can't give your woman this
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Love your woman in a way that the woman you love always feels free.

 

Sounds like the inside of a fortune cookie.

 

I dunno. As a woman I say what Pete has learned sounds pretty accurate to me.

 

THIS! DO THIS! Sorry, got a little excited there.

Pete, can you talk to my husband for me, lol.

Also want to add to OP, you said you have talked to her about your needs and that you "think" you do a good job, but have you ever asked her about what she might want or if she is actually getting pleasure from it?

 

It'd be my pleasure Moon.
Helping people is a treasured value of mine.