HELP!! -My boyfriend is addicted to sex!

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by freedbypeace, May 17, 2004.

  1. freedbypeace

    freedbypeace A Woman Left Lonely

    Yep, exactly what the title is. Although he is my fiance and I love him, he's addicted. If it's not sex it's head, and even when we do have sex, he cums and wants to go again, and again, and again, and again,... No joke! -On Sat. we had sex 8 times in a row! Maybe 15 sec in between at the most! What do I do? -As much as I enjoy it, I get tired, and I'm not constantly horny. Please help a girl out, how can I get him to not want sex as much, while still maintaining our good sex-life? :confused:
  2. 3 words. MAS-TUR-BATION
  3. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

    tell him no everyonce in a while. if you keep up at that rate, you'll be preggo in no time. how old is this boy?
  4. God

    God Member

  5. southern_bell

    southern_bell Member

    1. just lay there like a plastic doll and enjoy the ride.
    2. get him a second woman
    3. give him some porns to whack off too

    hope i was of help!:D lol
  6. What are you complaining about? or you trying to rub it in for the gals less fortunate than you eh?!!

  7. randy_savage

    randy_savage Member

    I think the best way is to avoid making sex or even thinking of sex for a while, perhaps in 3 weeks or something.

    Ask your boyfriend for the break. In the mean time, fulfill your time with him by doing something else just to deny the sex addiction. You both could do some hiking, camping or even a vacation to a new place (whatever that is non-related to sex).

    I strongly suggest you not to watch or provoke him with porn stuff coz that will surely steam him up even more.

    Hope this could help.

    Peace forever....
  8. crackforkids

    crackforkids Senior Member

    woah. i dont know, get him on some SSRI's and he'll lose his sex drive, i garentee it. i take zoloft and i cant bust if i have had sex like 24 hours before hand, some people have trouble with it period. sucks for them, lol.

    and randomuserhaha, how are you less fortunate? if thats your pic in your sig, you are quite beatiful!
  9. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

    Easy solution...

    Tell him you dont want to have sex eight times a day...
    Just because he wants too doesnt mean you have too
    Besides..doesnt that get sore...
  10. Fractual_

    Fractual_ cosmos factory

    tell him no once in a while sounds like a good solution.

    or give him a lot of head... that way hes still happy. dont make the poor guy masturbate.
  11. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

    ;) Hehehehe....
    why does he have to be happy, why cant she do what makes her happy
    I say make'em masterbate until his dick falls off and then tell him thats how you feel after you have sex eight times in a row..
  12. Mintaoism

    Mintaoism Member

    well if are in real trouble you have a threesome...but if you aren't that despearte why not give him a nice strip tease and he can wank off to that...
  13. These are 5 words: mas-tur-ba-ti-on. Makes sense, for u use 5 fingers!
  14. ??? what's wrong with masturbation ??? You can do it together, watching him jerkin off can be a turn on for both of you. It's a way of having sex together, but you will be less tired, lol
  15. freedbypeace

    freedbypeace A Woman Left Lonely

    sorry man but i don't like masturbation, never have, never will, it's not gross or anything at all, it's perfectly human, it's just not my cup of tea. yes i got sore. i wanted to cry about 3 hrs later. :eek: <--- ME. i like all your advice, but what about blackmail? -i know it's cruel, but it always seems to work.
  16. jungee

    jungee Member

    I have some serious concerns for you :( it says you are 15 and you describe being stuck with a boyfriend who is "addicted to sex" and reclaims "head" from you at every corner.

    The question then becomes: is there anything else he does with you? Do you ever time to enjoy each other's company outside of the bedroom, like *gasp* going to a movie ?

    The second concern is you might be in a situation that is not necessarly healthy : A caring lover knows to read his/her partner and doesn't still go on 3h later as they're about to cry. That is date rape.

    And lastly, you are extremely young, and need to learn to know YOURSELF sexually before getting into a relationship. That includes knowing to set limits for yourself and knowing when to say NO.

    You need to do something about this
  17. Peace

    Peace In complete harmony.

    Actually "masturbation" is one word. Didn't you pay attention in school?
  18. shutterfly

    shutterfly Member

    Touche' ! Jungee is soo right on this one. Did you say you're engaged to be married to this guy? Crazy. Don't mean to call you out on your age but you are young. You have so many other loves to experience. How old is your fiance'? I've been with boyfriends before that liked to have a lot of sex or weird sex. I finally decided that I'm not doing anything I don't want to do with someone just to make them happy if it's going to make me miserable. Compromise and communication from both sides is definately a must in any successful relationship. Tell him how you feel about the whole thing and if he loves you he'll respect your needs and you can start to work out some kind of compromise with each other.
  19. 1. In my time (I'm very old aged) we didn't learn this nasty word in school :eek:
    2. it was a joke ;)
    3. but I'm glad YOU pay attention in school :p

  20. freedbypeace

    freedbypeace A Woman Left Lonely

    I dont't really like telling people our age differences, he isn't 30 or anything, I just don't like trouble. Are you kidding??!?!? Of course we do other things! I'm just talking about at night when we are spending the night together. We go to the races, go to movies, he takes me out to dinner at nice resturants. Two days ago he took me to a nearby beach and we watched the sun go down. Afterwards we watched the seals showing off for mating season. We often go swimming and he takes me shopping even though I refuse to spend his money. The best part is he doesn't care what I look like. When I recently had dreads, he didn't care. He loves me for my personality. I just grew up a little faster then other people. I'm not a whore, I just fell deeply in love. It's perfect because he acts immature while I am more mature, so it perfectly evens out. :p

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