Help me I'm a twisted bitch

All of the physical traits that you are worried about are very appealing to guys. Don't sweat it. And try and find a guy that's not more than two years older than you. Any older than that at your age can mess with your head. Good luck!

 

who is the lovely girl in that photograph............p l e a s e.........!

 

what the last corres. said is absolutely spot on.........email her kid....and listen up too.

 

There's nothing wrong with anything you described. It's perfectly healthy to be curious about the opposite sex at 14. I know I was curious a hell of a lot earlier. I thought I was a "freak" because I was always a very sexual person. It wasn't until now that I realized ITS OKAY. You just seem to be a bit ahead of your friends, which is also okay, they'll catch up.

 

I had this happen to me not that long ago. A younger lady ( my kids friend) was kicked out of her house and stayed here to finish school. She then got this idea that I was a great guy and wanted more. She being my daughters age to me she was too young and I far too old.

Not that long ago she and my kid stopped by here and she told me it was the fact that I was the first guy that was really nice to her and not wanting anything from her that attracted her to me.

Well its a parents job to be nice, to do things for ya, to let you know your a special person and to be there for ya when you need it so it would be easy for you not being used to that from him to misdirect that attention especially at your age. Your doing fine and just making too much out of it right now. relax a little.

 

I said you were a little mentally ill. Why? because depression is a mental illness. I think there is nothing wrong with how you feel toward your father, but your just a little blue. Cheer up! It could always be worse.

 

Do what you feel is right for you. Listening to the world will only lead you away from your true desires

 

hes around 30 years old your 15... thats gross... and he is your dad! sicko

 

its ok to have strange feelings.
just dont act on them.
maybe you can find a boyfriend and it will help with those feelings.
im not sure.
but dont be so hard on yourself.
you will be ok.
be happy.

 

I know exactly what you're talking about. I gave up my son (and only child) for adoption when I was 16. That was in 1971. We met about 11 years ago. And it's a fact of reunion between the opposite sexes - there is an attraction. Attributed to the fact that you didn't 'grow up' with each other around are are veritable strangers - so it just happens. Another part of it is the seeing of yourself in the other person (and my son is a CARBON copy of me) which is in and of itself, beguiling (maybe not the right word there).


Anyway, it does pass (as another poster said) the more you get to know each other. My son and I both found ourselves smitten. But there was nothing going on sexually, not even flirting. I just thought it important to acknowledge it to each other, so it was on the table and not something he would be weirding out about as you are, thinking he was "sick". It's healtheir to realize it for what it is, than to shove it to the back thinking you've got problems for these feelings and thoughts.

I learned about this from a book called "Birth Bond: Reunions Between Birthparents and Adoptees - What Happens After". I highly recommend you purchase this book. It's a very easy read and has a lot of good information. Even though you wern't adopted, it's a similar scenario you've got.
http://www.amazon.com/Birthbond-Reunions-Birthparents-Adoptees-After/dp/0882820729

Congratulations in your reunion, and I hope he's everything you would want in a good father.

 

I think you are completely wrong dude..!
That's just normal..

He doesn't see him as her father... just a regular guy..

Relax girl..

 

Give it up!!! Rock his clock baby... Don't be shy - ya'll ought to make a porno. Sick fucks out there pay for that shit all the time.

 

Hey, I know a lot of people posted here, but hopefully I can help.

First of all, its cool that you met your dad, I think its cool that you wanted to in the first place. You probably just feel attracted to him because you don't think of him as your dad in the sense that someone with a "normal" family setup might. For example...people say its better for families to have a married man and a woman, but thats just because its a different experience for those who don't go through that system, so they turn out differently. I think its natural for you to be attracted to your father if he is a sexually appealing cool guy. I don't think you can get over that, thats just how it is. But its really good that you have standards and hope to uphold them, I think your a cool cat, so I mean just because your different than other people and people can't relate to you as well doesn't mean you should...well, I mean, don't get down on yourself. And if you feel like cutting your wrists and stuff, don't, if you look into other threads on here people say its addicting so please don't. But best of luck, peace and love.

 

headshrinker say we all experience those feelings as we grow up, and we grow out of it and into an adult relationship with our parents. Girl your so normal your almost boring