Ok gals, my wife and i have been married now for six years, she has three kids from a previous and i have one from a previous, the only reason i bring that up is if you have teenagers you know how stressful teenagers can be. On the occasions we do get to be alone we try to have more fun than just do it and be quiet, however recently she has had a hard time reaching that magical 0. I have done what has always done the trick, up to and including drawing her a bath with the sented candles and giving her a massage. She is about to turn 41, i dont know if that would have anything to do with it or not, but i want her to have that again. I Realize this may take both of us moving out of that comfort zone, but not sure where best to start. Any ideas or suggestions on a starting place would be a world of help.
My best advice is to get her a toy and use it on her. Or get a little rough with her, give her a good spanking or tie her up. There's endless possibilities. I have a top ten toys for women blog on www.AboutSexLove.com and theres a section for mens toys too.
